Wednesday, July 22, 2020
Discover How to Enhance Your Intimacy With Your Husband
Are you married for quite sometime now? Changes are normal in a long-term relationship like marriage. You will encounter changes not only with your everyday life as a couple or parents to your children but also in the level of your intimacy with each other. Intimacy is very important in a relationship and if you feel that your husband is getting cold and distant, you may need to do something to enhance your intimacy with your husband to keep your marriage healthy, happy and strong.
If you think that the intimacy in your marriage can be improved, do not hesitate to take the necessary action because lack of intimacy in a marriage could lead to infidelity and eventually to separation or divorce. The following tips can be very helpful if you want to enhance your intimacy with your husband.
Keep dating and do not wait for your husband to ask you for a date. It is a common belief that dating is just for people who are into "getting to know each other" stage and once they got married, dating has to stop. They get so comfortable with each other and know each other very well that they think that they do not have to date. Couples who have this kind of thinking are making a mistake because dating is a very important part of a relationship like marriage. Spending time together alone in a date keeps the relationship strong and healthy. Another wrong notion about dating is the belief that men should always initiate the date and they should be the first to ask women for a date. Why should you wait for your husband to ask you for a date? Why not do something for a change and prepare something special for your husband and ask him for a date? This kind of gesture can be very helpful if your want to enhance your intimacy with your husband. Make him feel special and set-up a romantic date to a romantic place and surprise your husband.
Be romantic. Men are not the only ones that should be romantic. Marriage is composed of two people and as a wife, you have to do your share to increase the level of romance in your marriage. Little gesture of love means a lot in a marriage. When was the last time you hold your husband's hand and gave him a quick kiss while walking in the park or street? Have you tried surprising him at work bringing his favorite food? How about giving him a massage after a long tiring day at work? Small things like sending him love notes, romantic text messages and calling him once in a while to tell him that you love him can be very romantic. Be romantic if you want to enhance your intimacy with your husband and if you want to bring more life into your marriage.
Seduce your husband. Do you want other women to seduce your husband? Of course you do not want that to happen so why not seduce your husband yourself to enhance your intimacy with your husband. As a wife you also have to be sexy and seductive to enhance the level of excitement of your husband. Maintain a well-shaped body and try those sexy lingerie and underwear to excite your husband's imagination. Strip or dance for your husband and see how he will get excited with those seductive moves from you.
Be open-minded in experimenting in the bedroom. Chances are you husband have sexual fantasies that need to be fulfilled. Why not take the initiative to ask him about his sexual fantasies and keep an open mind about them. Expressing your willingness to experiment in the bedroom may bring new life to your sex life and can be very helpful if you want to enhance your intimacy with your husband. Your husband will be deeply touched by your willingness to give him the pleasure he deserves. Of course, you are doing this because you are genuinely ready to experiment in the bedroom because if you are uncomfortable doing this, lovemaking with your husband will end up as a disaster.
Thursday, March 15, 2012
How to Save Marriage and Bring Back Its Charm
Marriage is an institution that is meant to last forever. But how frequent does that happen in the present times? Well, of course not many times. Reasons behind this are countless. There are people who throw the blame on modern lifestyle, while other are too confused to make any statement in this concern. After a thorough study of relationships and issues associated with it, I've made a conclusion.
My conclusion comprises 4 points, which I consider as the reasons for the gradually fading reputation of marriage.
1. Communication - More often than not, it has been seen that individuals keep expecting their partners to read their mind and act accordingly. When things do not happen that way, the situation gets complicated. One rarely ever tries to comprehend the fact that until and unless you don't share your likes, dislikes, beliefs and ideas with your partner, he/she cannot know who you are, and what you expect from him/her. So, it is sincerely advised to talk to your partners about each and everything you wanted in them and things which if they do, will make you happy. That is one thing that will undoubtedly have a magical effect on your relationship!
2. Spend Quality Time With Your Partner - 90% of individuals assume that they are spending enough time with their partners, while they aren't actually! This can have disastrous effect on your relationship. It pushes your partner towards loneliness and they may even lose interest in you, gradually. It might be that you are a busy man/woman (that's quite common in the present times), but no matter what, you should at least try to steal some time, from even your super busy schedule. Another thing that you must keep in mind is the fact that spending quality time with your partner doesn't mean a family outing. These are two different things. Spending quality time with your partner means just you and your partner! Watch a movie, cook their favorite food, go for a drive or just be in bed and relax.
3. Surprise Them - We all do that very often in our teen age. But do we ever plan any such thing anymore? Well, not many can say yes to this. Why? The answer is the fact that we take our life partners for granted. Yes, we do! I call it overconfidence. We become so proud of our relationship that we avoid even an ounce of possibility that there can be any problem and hence we don't make efforts for them. C'mon guys! Refresh your minds. Your partners are still the same persons, you once wanted to impress. They still need that affection and nothing could be better than a pleasant surprise to show them your affection and make them realize that you still care for them.
4. Always Seek Their Point Of View - There are plentiful times when we have to take big decisions. In those times, do you consult your partner? If not, then you must immediately change your style. You may be the best at taking decisions, whereas you partner might not be, but seeking their point of view will make them feel good. It will make them feel wanted and loved. So, the next time when you have to do something crucial, do approach them for their viewpoint.
My conclusion comprises 4 points, which I consider as the reasons for the gradually fading reputation of marriage.
1. Communication - More often than not, it has been seen that individuals keep expecting their partners to read their mind and act accordingly. When things do not happen that way, the situation gets complicated. One rarely ever tries to comprehend the fact that until and unless you don't share your likes, dislikes, beliefs and ideas with your partner, he/she cannot know who you are, and what you expect from him/her. So, it is sincerely advised to talk to your partners about each and everything you wanted in them and things which if they do, will make you happy. That is one thing that will undoubtedly have a magical effect on your relationship!
2. Spend Quality Time With Your Partner - 90% of individuals assume that they are spending enough time with their partners, while they aren't actually! This can have disastrous effect on your relationship. It pushes your partner towards loneliness and they may even lose interest in you, gradually. It might be that you are a busy man/woman (that's quite common in the present times), but no matter what, you should at least try to steal some time, from even your super busy schedule. Another thing that you must keep in mind is the fact that spending quality time with your partner doesn't mean a family outing. These are two different things. Spending quality time with your partner means just you and your partner! Watch a movie, cook their favorite food, go for a drive or just be in bed and relax.
3. Surprise Them - We all do that very often in our teen age. But do we ever plan any such thing anymore? Well, not many can say yes to this. Why? The answer is the fact that we take our life partners for granted. Yes, we do! I call it overconfidence. We become so proud of our relationship that we avoid even an ounce of possibility that there can be any problem and hence we don't make efforts for them. C'mon guys! Refresh your minds. Your partners are still the same persons, you once wanted to impress. They still need that affection and nothing could be better than a pleasant surprise to show them your affection and make them realize that you still care for them.
4. Always Seek Their Point Of View - There are plentiful times when we have to take big decisions. In those times, do you consult your partner? If not, then you must immediately change your style. You may be the best at taking decisions, whereas you partner might not be, but seeking their point of view will make them feel good. It will make them feel wanted and loved. So, the next time when you have to do something crucial, do approach them for their viewpoint.
Thursday, February 23, 2012
How To Use Erotic Massage To Make Your Lady Orgasm
A sensual massage can create an erotic and relaxing experience for both the person giving the massage and the person receiving it. An erotic massage can relax a woman's body, mind and spirit through intimate touch which serves to increase her libido. Knowing how to create a truly erotic experience using massage as foreplay will not only get her into the mood and make her orgasm easily, but pretty much guarantee that she will rock your world in return. Use these erotic massage tips to provide the best massage experience that can quickly and easily re-energize you and your partner's love life.
(1) Create A Conducive Atmosphere
Light candles to set the mood with a soft light and switch off all other lights. Lighting candles can relax the spirit and state of mind. Candles can add to the effect you are trying to achieve especially if you burn scented candles. Try playing some of her favorite music in the background. The air conditioner should be adjusted to a comfortable room temperature. It should not be too cold as to make your lady shiver nor too warm to make her sweat. Maintaining a nice room temperature will allow your woman to feel comfortable even when she is naked.
(2) Keep Her Comfortable
Make sure your lady is comfortable and the bed is suitable for you to work on. You can provide a soft pillow to have her head relax on it. Prepare for the encounter beforehand by making the bed with soft fabrics. Cover the bed with a large towel to prevent massage oil and lotions from staining the fabric beneath it.
(3) Use Some Oils And Lotions
A good sensual massage should involve all the senses, not just touch. Scented oils will include her sense of smell in the experience and enhance the overall massage process. Using massage oil can smooth the glide of your hand against her body and reduce any friction that may cause pain. Some common oils which you can use are sweet almond oil, sunflower oil, avocado oil and grape seed oil.
(4) Start From The Top
Apply a few drops of massage oil onto your hands and gently rub the neck from the base of the skull using your thumbs in circular motion. Slowly increase the pressure as you rub all the way out to the end of the shoulders. It should be firm, but not too much pressure that it hurts.
Then you firmly grip her shoulders right where they meet her neck on both sides. The trapezius muscle in the shoulder is usually affected first during stress. Therefore, this zone may be tenser than other areas of the body. Hence, applying more pressure to this area would be ideal. Press your thumbs onto her upper back. Squeeze her shoulders and release. She should immediately feel a slight release of tension. You continue squeezing and releasing her shoulders as well as applying pressure on her upper back with your thumbs a few times before you move to the upper arms.
Apply more oil and begin to softly massage each of her arms. Rub each arm in a circular motion as you gently squeeze the bicep muscles. Run your thumb down the center of the forearm, increasing pressure as you get closer to the wrist. Squeeze each finger and gently pull it outward to relax her finger joints. Apply firm pressure to the palms of her hands using your thumbs.
(5) Work Slowly Down From Her Back
You can start with an up and down stroke then move on to a circular motion. Lock your elbow to straighten your arm and you lean your body forward as you press your palms on both sides of the backbone. After you press, you release and then you do this action up and down with your palms one to two times along both sides of her backbone.
Next you use larger circular strokes with your fingers near to the top of her back and switch to smaller circular strokes near the hip area. Knead on her buttocks using your fingertips. Make a switch to apply pressure using your knuckles up and down the buttocks.
When you move to the legs, you apply more oil and rub both legs one at a time. Firmly knead the calves in a circular motion. Then you use your elbow or forearm to press against the thigh as you move further down to the feet to squeeze the ankles.
Next you begin the foot massage by squeezing the sole. You use your thumb and index finger to squeeze on each toe. As you move to the tip of each toe, you gently pull on it outward to relax the toe joint. You do the same with the other foot.
You will know that you have performed a satisfactory job when your lady craves more of your massage in the future.
Thursday, January 26, 2012
6 Myths About Female Sexuality And The Truth About What Women Really Want In The Bedroom
In this article you are going to discover 6 huge myths about female sexuality. So if you want to know the truth about women and sex -- read on carefully...
Myths About Female Sexuality #1: Women Don't Like Sex As Much As Men Do....
Many people think that women don't like sex as much as men, but the truth is that women absolutely love sex.
However, unlike men who are usually happy to get any sex -- women only want GREAT SEX.
Myths About Female Sexuality #2: Women Don't Want Men To Take Control During Sex
Some people believe that women want to take control in the bedroom and hate it when a man tries to do the same.
The truth is that most of the time, women want their men to TAKE CONTROL during sex. This is because women are usually sexually submissive in the bedroom and submissive people don't take control. Instead -- they follow.
Myths About Female Sexuality #3: Some Women Can't Have An Orgasm
Up to 30% of women have never had an orgasm.
However, this does not mean that some women can't orgasm. Every woman who has a brain and a vagina has the power to experience an orgasm.
As men, we need good sexual beliefs, sound knowledge of female anatomy and proven sex techniques and the ability to take control in the bedroom. When we have these things -- will have the ability to teach any woman how to have an orgasm.
Myths About Female Sexuality #4: Women Only Want Guys Who Are 'Big Down There'
Ah, the old 'size matters' myth.
The reality is that women want men who give them incredible sexual pleasure and mind-blowing orgasms.
Big or small -- it really doesn't matter. Just give your woman powerful orgasms and she'll be happy in the bedroom.
Myths About Female Sexuality #5: Women Only Want Sexually Experienced Men
Again, women don't care how much sexual experience a man has. What women really want is a man who gives them incredible sex.
Myths About Female Sexuality #6: Women Aren't As Sexual As Men
This last myth is a bad joke.
Consider this fact:
Women are capable of having clitoral, vaginal, multiple and squirting. Heck, they can even have 'mindgasms' (orgasms without any physical touching).
And you're telling me women aren't as sexual as men?
The reality is that women are way more sexual than men, but as a man -- you have to bring that sexuality out of your woman. She cannot do it all on her own.
Myths About Female Sexuality #1: Women Don't Like Sex As Much As Men Do....
Many people think that women don't like sex as much as men, but the truth is that women absolutely love sex.
However, unlike men who are usually happy to get any sex -- women only want GREAT SEX.
Myths About Female Sexuality #2: Women Don't Want Men To Take Control During Sex
Some people believe that women want to take control in the bedroom and hate it when a man tries to do the same.
The truth is that most of the time, women want their men to TAKE CONTROL during sex. This is because women are usually sexually submissive in the bedroom and submissive people don't take control. Instead -- they follow.
Myths About Female Sexuality #3: Some Women Can't Have An Orgasm
Up to 30% of women have never had an orgasm.
However, this does not mean that some women can't orgasm. Every woman who has a brain and a vagina has the power to experience an orgasm.
As men, we need good sexual beliefs, sound knowledge of female anatomy and proven sex techniques and the ability to take control in the bedroom. When we have these things -- will have the ability to teach any woman how to have an orgasm.
Myths About Female Sexuality #4: Women Only Want Guys Who Are 'Big Down There'
Ah, the old 'size matters' myth.
The reality is that women want men who give them incredible sexual pleasure and mind-blowing orgasms.
Big or small -- it really doesn't matter. Just give your woman powerful orgasms and she'll be happy in the bedroom.
Myths About Female Sexuality #5: Women Only Want Sexually Experienced Men
Again, women don't care how much sexual experience a man has. What women really want is a man who gives them incredible sex.
Myths About Female Sexuality #6: Women Aren't As Sexual As Men
This last myth is a bad joke.
Consider this fact:
Women are capable of having clitoral, vaginal, multiple and squirting. Heck, they can even have 'mindgasms' (orgasms without any physical touching).
And you're telling me women aren't as sexual as men?
The reality is that women are way more sexual than men, but as a man -- you have to bring that sexuality out of your woman. She cannot do it all on her own.
Why Can't Men Remember Anniversaries?
Do you have trouble remembering special dates such as birthdays, holidays, wedding anniversaries? To find out why, let's look at which dates we can remember, and which we can't:
Birthdays
Every one can remember their own date of birth even though most of us have trouble remembering the actual day of our birth!
So why do we remember our birthday?
Well, presumably it's because we celebrate it every year with our family and friends, and it is a key part of every form we ever complete. If we forget our birthday, we could never get a passport or a driver's licence, get married... you get the picture!
Holidays and Other Celebrations
Most of us can remember these holidays and celebrations:
Christmas Day: 25th December
New Year's Day: 1st January
National 'Birthdays': e.g. Nigeria Independence: 1st October, U.S. Independence Day: 4th July, Canada Day: 1st July
Valentine's Day: 14th February
Remembrance Day: 11th November
Why do we remember these? Well, they are ingrained in tradition, they fall on the same date every year and, for most of them, we get rewarded with a day off work!
Most of us celebrate other holidays and religious festivals, such as Easter and Thanksgiving. These events are important to us spiritually, emotionally or just because we get the day off work to spend with families and friends! We know roughly when they occur but, because the dates vary every year (e.g. the first Monday of September, say), very few of us know the actual dates.
Other People's Birthdays and Anniversaries:
Most of us can remember birthdays for those who are close to us: family members, close friends, spouses. But it becomes increasingly difficult as the relationship weakens and most people resort to calendars and Facebook to remember friends' birthdays. As for other people's wedding anniversaries, these rapidly become forgotten and are not traditionally celebrated by non-family members except perhaps the 1st, 10th, 25th and 50th.
Why Do We Remember Some Dates?
Based on this research, it seems that the reasons we remember certain dates are:
Repetition: The event falls on the same date every year
Duration: The longer we have been celebrating an event, the easier it is to remember
Importance: How important is the event, and what is the penalty for forgetting?
Tradition: The event is religious or part of popular culture
Celebration: The more people that take part, the more likely we are to remember
Reward: Receiving gifts, or getting a day off work, appears to enhance memory!
Wedding Anniversaries Should Be Memorable
A wedding anniversary seems to meet almost all of the criteria for a memorable event. It falls on the same date every year, it is traditional to celebrate it and we receive gifts. It is the most important date in a relationship and many say it was the happiest day of their lives. Not only that, but the penalty for forgetting can be quite severe!
Why Can't Men Remember Their Wedding Anniversary?
I suspect that it has a lot to do with:
Duration & Repetition: By definition, we don't start celebrating wedding anniversaries until after we get married, so it is a new date for us and takes a while to become ingrained. So, if there's any good news, it's that the longer we stay married, the more likely we are to remember!
Support: Also, if we happen to forget, we have to rely on our friends to remind us. So for men, that means having to rely on other men to remember their wedding anniversary - imagine the chance of that!
I also think it would help if:
We were given a day off work to celebrate our wedding anniversary
We had to use our anniversary date on all government forms
Our friends would help us to remember by celebrating with us
We receive thoughtful gifts to show that we're appreciated
Why Do Women Remember Anniversaries when Men Don't?
I think the answer revolves around the emotional time and effort that women invest in planning and preparing for the wedding, that they are generally more romantic than men, better at celebrating life's important events and have a stronger network of friends that help them to remember. Of course, I could be wrong - I usually am! I'd love to know what you think - please leave a comment below.
Celebrate Your Anniversary!
I'm sure that there are some women & Men that have occasionally forgotten their anniversary. Regardless of your past record, you can put it right going forward.
So, if you have trouble remembering your wedding anniversary date, you're not alone! Look it up, write it in a calendar or set up an electronic reminder.
And, if your anniversary is coming up soon, you should celebrate in style.
Birthdays
Every one can remember their own date of birth even though most of us have trouble remembering the actual day of our birth!
So why do we remember our birthday?
Well, presumably it's because we celebrate it every year with our family and friends, and it is a key part of every form we ever complete. If we forget our birthday, we could never get a passport or a driver's licence, get married... you get the picture!
Holidays and Other Celebrations
Most of us can remember these holidays and celebrations:
Christmas Day: 25th December
New Year's Day: 1st January
National 'Birthdays': e.g. Nigeria Independence: 1st October, U.S. Independence Day: 4th July, Canada Day: 1st July
Valentine's Day: 14th February
Remembrance Day: 11th November
Why do we remember these? Well, they are ingrained in tradition, they fall on the same date every year and, for most of them, we get rewarded with a day off work!
Most of us celebrate other holidays and religious festivals, such as Easter and Thanksgiving. These events are important to us spiritually, emotionally or just because we get the day off work to spend with families and friends! We know roughly when they occur but, because the dates vary every year (e.g. the first Monday of September, say), very few of us know the actual dates.
Other People's Birthdays and Anniversaries:
Most of us can remember birthdays for those who are close to us: family members, close friends, spouses. But it becomes increasingly difficult as the relationship weakens and most people resort to calendars and Facebook to remember friends' birthdays. As for other people's wedding anniversaries, these rapidly become forgotten and are not traditionally celebrated by non-family members except perhaps the 1st, 10th, 25th and 50th.
Why Do We Remember Some Dates?
Based on this research, it seems that the reasons we remember certain dates are:
Repetition: The event falls on the same date every year
Duration: The longer we have been celebrating an event, the easier it is to remember
Importance: How important is the event, and what is the penalty for forgetting?
Tradition: The event is religious or part of popular culture
Celebration: The more people that take part, the more likely we are to remember
Reward: Receiving gifts, or getting a day off work, appears to enhance memory!
Wedding Anniversaries Should Be Memorable
A wedding anniversary seems to meet almost all of the criteria for a memorable event. It falls on the same date every year, it is traditional to celebrate it and we receive gifts. It is the most important date in a relationship and many say it was the happiest day of their lives. Not only that, but the penalty for forgetting can be quite severe!
Why Can't Men Remember Their Wedding Anniversary?
I suspect that it has a lot to do with:
Duration & Repetition: By definition, we don't start celebrating wedding anniversaries until after we get married, so it is a new date for us and takes a while to become ingrained. So, if there's any good news, it's that the longer we stay married, the more likely we are to remember!
Support: Also, if we happen to forget, we have to rely on our friends to remind us. So for men, that means having to rely on other men to remember their wedding anniversary - imagine the chance of that!
I also think it would help if:
We were given a day off work to celebrate our wedding anniversary
We had to use our anniversary date on all government forms
Our friends would help us to remember by celebrating with us
We receive thoughtful gifts to show that we're appreciated
Why Do Women Remember Anniversaries when Men Don't?
I think the answer revolves around the emotional time and effort that women invest in planning and preparing for the wedding, that they are generally more romantic than men, better at celebrating life's important events and have a stronger network of friends that help them to remember. Of course, I could be wrong - I usually am! I'd love to know what you think - please leave a comment below.
Celebrate Your Anniversary!
I'm sure that there are some women & Men that have occasionally forgotten their anniversary. Regardless of your past record, you can put it right going forward.
So, if you have trouble remembering your wedding anniversary date, you're not alone! Look it up, write it in a calendar or set up an electronic reminder.
And, if your anniversary is coming up soon, you should celebrate in style.
Thursday, January 19, 2012
Don't Be The Woman That Needs a Man, Be The Woman a Man Needs!
Are you a single lady?
Do you have a long list of requirements for your potential mate?
Are these expectations exhaustive and unrealistic?
Instead of waiting for Mr Right to walk blissfully in to your life, why not start preparing for them.
If you want a partner that is fit, healthy, ambitious, passionate, focused, driven, loving and who cares for their family, then it stands to reason that you must first become all of those things yourself.
Like attracts like, so if you want to attract someone who is beautiful both inside and out then you must reflect that in your actions, thoughts and deeds. When you fall in love with yourself it allows the whole world to love you too. Work on improving daily by being a better person while having unwavering faith that there is someone out here made especially for you. If your paths have not met up until now, it just means that there is more preparation to do.
Men need a woman who is strong and self sufficient. Not one who comes across needy or insecure. The only way to become that woman is to work within your passion. Think about the wonderful plans you had for yourself as a child, 'have you done everything you ever wanted to?' is there a class you have been meaning to take? A business that you know you should start? whatever it is get to it.
Really think to yourself 'what type of wife do I want to be' what can I bring to the relationship? Instead of having a list of expectation's for your potential partner, have a list of what you can offer instead. What can you give? What qualities do you bring to the table? How can you enhance someone else's life? Once you have the answers you will have the blueprint for the areas that you need to work on.
Maybe you need to learn how to cook? Because you want to be a stay at home mom, Or maybe you would rather be the bread winner so you have to now focus on growing you business or career? Could you do with being more patient, forgiving, loving, romantic?
Improving yourself brings great reward to yourself and those around And the result is that you become more valuable, gain self respect and build confidence.
Just think about how great you are going to look and feel when love finds you. You will be fully in Joy and ready to share your true unconditional love.
Remember 'if you haven't met your soul mate yet then it just means that this is the time to fall in love with YOU'
Work towards creating a wonderful future and the rest will follow!
'The most important relationship you will ever have is with yourself.'
To learn HOW to become the Woman a man needs.
Do you have a long list of requirements for your potential mate?
Are these expectations exhaustive and unrealistic?
Instead of waiting for Mr Right to walk blissfully in to your life, why not start preparing for them.
If you want a partner that is fit, healthy, ambitious, passionate, focused, driven, loving and who cares for their family, then it stands to reason that you must first become all of those things yourself.
Like attracts like, so if you want to attract someone who is beautiful both inside and out then you must reflect that in your actions, thoughts and deeds. When you fall in love with yourself it allows the whole world to love you too. Work on improving daily by being a better person while having unwavering faith that there is someone out here made especially for you. If your paths have not met up until now, it just means that there is more preparation to do.
Men need a woman who is strong and self sufficient. Not one who comes across needy or insecure. The only way to become that woman is to work within your passion. Think about the wonderful plans you had for yourself as a child, 'have you done everything you ever wanted to?' is there a class you have been meaning to take? A business that you know you should start? whatever it is get to it.
Really think to yourself 'what type of wife do I want to be' what can I bring to the relationship? Instead of having a list of expectation's for your potential partner, have a list of what you can offer instead. What can you give? What qualities do you bring to the table? How can you enhance someone else's life? Once you have the answers you will have the blueprint for the areas that you need to work on.
Maybe you need to learn how to cook? Because you want to be a stay at home mom, Or maybe you would rather be the bread winner so you have to now focus on growing you business or career? Could you do with being more patient, forgiving, loving, romantic?
Improving yourself brings great reward to yourself and those around And the result is that you become more valuable, gain self respect and build confidence.
Just think about how great you are going to look and feel when love finds you. You will be fully in Joy and ready to share your true unconditional love.
Remember 'if you haven't met your soul mate yet then it just means that this is the time to fall in love with YOU'
Work towards creating a wonderful future and the rest will follow!
'The most important relationship you will ever have is with yourself.'
To learn HOW to become the Woman a man needs.
Little Things That Make or Break a Relationship
Just as tiny drops of water make an ocean, little actions of Love and Care strengthens a relationships. It takes years to build the much-needed trust in a relationship while it takes just an action of callousness to break the bond. Both men and women need to work in tandem to complement each other in a relationship. Just telling how much you love each other is not enough. Every action of yours should speak about the Love you feel towards each other. Here are some of the things that guys as well as ladies should do to keep their bond strong day after day.
Wish your Lady 'Good Morning' and 'Good Night' Everyday. Trivial as it might sound but all women appreciate this little gesture. If she lives with you, then begin your day with a warm, cozy hug. Else, send her a lovey-dovey good morning text. This will surely be a very good beginning to her day. In addition, make sure you end your day with a Loving Goodnight text and a Goodnight Kiss. And if your ladylove is by your side, you have enough ways to say Goodnight to her.
Likewise, women should be sensitive to their partners when they return stressed after a hard day at office. Often, women overlook the fact that their partners want to relax when they come home and not be welcomed with complaints or nagging issues. A warm cup of tea or coffee, a relaxing neck or head massage, and a warm welcome at home is more than enough for men to feel blessed.
Women love to be cared for. Men should remember this and offer her to drop off wherever she is heading to occasionally like office or supermarket. This does not mean that she cannot travel or go alone. It only means that the guy cares for her and wants her to be safe.
Sharing is one of the most important building stones in a relationship. Share your day's experience, your biggest fears and happiness, and your secrets (serious ones or extreme dumb ones) with your partner. These little things help to uncover the facets of each other's personalities and help to know each other better. In addition, these revelations help to build faith in each other.
Remembering important dates is also a vital aspect that assures, especially women, how much the man in her life values her. Men are not too good with dates but the best thing they can do is save dates like her birthday or anniversary date on the calendar. Forgetting important dates is a very sensitive issue amongst most women. So guys, why give them the chance to complain?
Last but not the least, no matter how many times your lady has said that gifts don't matter, she will love it when you surprise her with gifts. Gifts do not have to be expensive always. They should complement the occasion and ooze with love and tenderness. So, always keep in mind to shower your love with pretty gifts once in a while.
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