Don't Be The Woman That Needs a Man, Be The Woman a Man Needs!

Are you a single lady?

Do you have a long list of requirements for your potential mate?

Are these expectations exhaustive and unrealistic?

Instead of waiting for Mr Right to walk blissfully in to your life, why not start preparing for them.

If you want a partner that is fit, healthy, ambitious, passionate, focused, driven, loving and who cares for their family, then it stands to reason that you must first become all of those things yourself.

Like attracts like, so if you want to attract someone who is beautiful both inside and out then you must reflect that in your actions, thoughts and deeds. When you fall in love with yourself it allows the whole world to love you too. Work on improving daily by being a better person while having unwavering faith that there is someone out here made especially for you. If your paths have not met up until now, it just means that there is more preparation to do.

Men need a woman who is strong and self sufficient. Not one who comes across needy or insecure. The only way to become that woman is to work within your passion. Think about the wonderful plans you had for yourself as a child, 'have you done everything you ever wanted to?' is there a class you have been meaning to take? A business that you know you should start? whatever it is get to it.

Really think to yourself 'what type of wife do I want to be' what can I bring to the relationship? Instead of having a list of expectation's for your potential partner, have a list of what you can offer instead. What can you give? What qualities do you bring to the table? How can you enhance someone else's life? Once you have the answers you will have the blueprint for the areas that you need to work on.

Maybe you need to learn how to cook? Because you want to be a stay at home mom, Or maybe you would rather be the bread winner so you have to now focus on growing you business or career? Could you do with being more patient, forgiving, loving, romantic?

Improving yourself brings great reward to yourself and those around And the result is that you become more valuable, gain self respect and build confidence.

Just think about how great you are going to look and feel when love finds you. You will be fully in Joy and ready to share your true unconditional love.

Remember 'if you haven't met your soul mate yet then it just means that this is the time to fall in love with YOU'

Work towards creating a wonderful future and the rest will follow!

'The most important relationship you will ever have is with yourself.'

To learn HOW to become the Woman a man needs.

Little Things That Make or Break a Relationship

Just as tiny drops of water make an ocean, little actions of Love and Care strengthens a relationships. It takes years to build the much-needed trust in a relationship while it takes just an action of callousness to break the bond. Both men and women need to work in tandem to complement each other in a relationship. Just telling how much you love each other is not enough. Every action of yours should speak about the Love you feel towards each other. Here are some of the things that guys as well as ladies should do to keep their bond strong day after day.

Wish your Lady 'Good Morning' and 'Good Night' Everyday. Trivial as it might sound but all women appreciate this little gesture. If she lives with you, then begin your day with a warm, cozy hug. Else, send her a lovey-dovey good morning text. This will surely be a very good beginning to her day. In addition, make sure you end your day with a Loving Goodnight text and a Goodnight Kiss. And if your ladylove is by your side, you have enough ways to say Goodnight to her.

Likewise, women should be sensitive to their partners when they return stressed after a hard day at office. Often, women overlook the fact that their partners want to relax when they come home and not be welcomed with complaints or nagging issues. A warm cup of tea or coffee, a relaxing neck or head massage, and a warm welcome at home is more than enough for men to feel blessed.

Women love to be cared for. Men should remember this and offer her to drop off wherever she is heading to occasionally like office or supermarket. This does not mean that she cannot travel or go alone. It only means that the guy cares for her and wants her to be safe.

Sharing is one of the most important building stones in a relationship. Share your day's experience, your biggest fears and happiness, and your secrets (serious ones or extreme dumb ones) with your partner. These little things help to uncover the facets of each other's personalities and help to know each other better. In addition, these revelations help to build faith in each other.

Remembering important dates is also a vital aspect that assures, especially women, how much the man in her life values her. Men are not too good with dates but the best thing they can do is save dates like her birthday or anniversary date on the calendar. Forgetting important dates is a very sensitive issue amongst most women. So guys, why give them the chance to complain?

Last but not the least, no matter how many times your lady has said that gifts don't matter, she will love it when you surprise her with gifts. Gifts do not have to be expensive always. They should complement the occasion and ooze with love and tenderness. So, always keep in mind to shower your love with pretty gifts once in a while.

5 Keys to Romantic Messages

Many women don"t grasp the power of using romantic text messages to get their men to become more romantic. If you have been trying to talk your man into taking you out more, doing more things for you or spending more time listening to your needs, you have to stop for a moment and consider how much love you can be experiencing right now if you know how to send him the right messages.

There is a way to get the attention you want, you can't just send him a sexy message and expect that is going to do it. You have to know exactly how to go about keeping the momentum going so that it can spark the right feelings inside of him.

Below are 5 Crucial Tips To Accomplish This:

1. You have to use your power as a woman and stop feeling like you're powerless. This is exactly what's causing you to come off as begging your man to give you attention. He sees desperation. Stop begging and start texting.

2. You have to understand how to push his romantic buttons. Men are motivated differently than women are. Telling him you miss him will not get him to stand up and pay attention. Paint a picture in his mind and create the mood and you will see him stand up and pay attention.

3. Once you send him the first text or reply to his initial text, you have to be very careful. You have to strike a good balance or it will go no where. Think about your texts as a status update on your profile. This isn't the time to write a romantic letter, it's time to get in the game and have some fun.

4. Be the Mystery Woman. Without mystery, his mind will have no room to explore you. You want him to explore you from the inside out but you don't want him to have all the cake at once. Make him wait and create intrigue. Leave him wanting more.

5. Curiosity creates intrigue. Once the ball is rolling, don't answer his questions directly but pretend that you don't really understand what he's saying in a playful manner. Make him have to work a bit to know where you're leading him. This challenges him and men love a challenge.

Don't ever bother to apologize to your man if you're giving him a mental challenge and he gets bent out of shape. Don't worry about it. The more he has to think, the better it is for you. If he replied that he didn't understand what you mean, just roll with it or you'll kill the attraction. Stop worrying so much what he thinks.

Most women think they can just send any text messages to get a stalling relationship to move forward, but let me tell you that if you don't know what you're doing, you will make your relationship worse. If you are sending him messages that appeal to you, you are making a big mistake. Men aren't women.

Does He Still Love Me? Romantic Texts to Bring the Love Back Fast

Are you worried about your relationship?

Were you with a man who pulled away and now you're wondering how to get the romance back?

Have you tried connecting with him but he's taken days to get back to you?

If you're wondering if he's still into you or if he still loves you, the worst way to find out is to chase him by giving him all of your attention. You may have been doing this and notice its not working for you. There is another authentic and fast way to find out if he's still into you and it's called digital foreplay.

What is digital foreplay?

We all know how powerful simple words can be when said in the right way. And texting is no different. You can use text messages to find out if your man is still into you but you have to do it the right way.

Imagine what it would be like if he got a message from you that triggered just the right feelings inside of him to make him want to respond. Messages that make you come off as confident and not desperate for his attention. Simple text messages that can create a new magic spark inside of him.

The quickest way to know if he's still in love with you is by testing out the waters so to speak.

You can also put the magic back into your life if you understand some easy principles behind how to use text messages to trigger attraction. I have to warn you because I've heard of some who do this and it's backfired on them:

1. They didn't send the right messages and

2. They didn't put themselves first, they were only thinking about the man's feelings.

Try to avoid doing this if you want real results. In the end, it really matters that you care enough about yourself first as well as care about someone else's feelings. Instead of spending all of your energy worried about his feelings for you, think about how spectacular you are then use text messages to bring the romance back. It has worked for many others and it could work for you.

Now I want you to know that what is romantic to you may not feel romantic to him. Men are visual. That being said, if you are going to send him romantic texts, you want to stimulate his imagination. A man falls in love in his imagination.

With just a few well placed romantic text messages, you could re-ignite the passion in your relationship, catapult his attraction, make him miss you, and fall in love over again. Your husband has an internal switch that you may not have known about and if you are able to push this inner switch, you can get him to be romantic at command. One of the ways you trigger this switch is through curiosity. You can send him a text message that will get his attention fast and make him feel connected to you in a romantic way.

Text Love To His Heart

How do men fall in love? They fall in love in their imaginations and this happens when they think about you. When a man thinks about you, his imagination fills in the blanks. When texting a man in order to get to his heart, you have to send just enough to keep him curious. Give his imagination the room to fill in the blanks.

If you start painting pictures in his mind, then pique his interest with one sentence that will make him think, you will get inside his mind. The key is saying something out of the ordinary that will make him think. When he starts to think about you often, his mind will come to love what it thinks about. Many women make the mistake of giving too much information in their texts. They get too mushy and leave no room for his imagination.

Also remember when texting romantic messages or love messages, less really is more. If you bombard him with texts, it will back fire on you and you will be annoying. Timing is everything. You want to give him just enough to bait his imagination, and leave him wanting more.

Here is an example of leaving him wanting more:

Her: Crazy morning my Love, I had to rush to get dressed and you will never guess what I opted NOT to wear today.

Him: Oh tell me

Her: mmm, that's my little secret.

As you can see, now his imagination is in gear. She could take it further by painting a picture that she is wearing a dress. This builds sexual tension and will have him thinking all sorts of things and painting his own visual pictures in his mind. The message is also playful. Men adore playful women. Making your romantic text messages playful is what I am trying to say.

42 Warning Signs and Clues That Your Man Might Be Cheating

Some women failed to spot and have overlooked their husband's signs and clues of cheating, they are often the last one to know about their man's infidelity. Don't be that WOMAN! To avoid becoming that poor woman, women must to learn how to catch the cheater in the earliest stage. Before you learn how to catch the cheater, you need to know how to spot signs and clues of men's cheating behaviors. Men's cheating behaviors often have similar clues, signs and patterns. So, how do women tell the difference between an innocent and a real cheating behavior? Clues and signs of men's cheating do vary from time to time, but when a man shows multiple suspicious signs or clues of cheating behaviors, his woman should have a serious doubt that he might be cheating.
The following is a list of 42 men's cheating signs, clues, and behaviors:

1) He has more frequent work overtime.

2) He has more frequent business trips.

3) When he picks up his cell phone calls at home he always whispers, or he would walk to another room first, and then pick up the call.

4) He stops wearing his wedding ring.

5) You caught him many times not wearing his ring, and so he always told you he forgot to put it back after he took a shower.

6) Whenever you go out, he goes out right after you.

7) He goes to the gym more frequently than he used to.

8) He picks on your flaws more frequently than he used to.

9) He gives you more freedom than he used to, and doesn't seem to care when you come home late.

10) He doesn't tell you about his day off from work, and pretends to go to work as usual.

11) He is more critical towards you, and gets irritated when you make tiny mistakes.

12) He doesn't try to comfort and pamper you like he used when you are sad.

13) He refuses to have sex with you.

14) He doesn't touch or kiss you like he used to.

15) He starts to care about his appearance.

16) He starts to use skin care products, which he refused to use in the past.

17) There is lipstick mark on his shirt collar.

18) You smell women's perfume on him.

19) You smell fresh shower gel on his skin when he comes home from work.

20) He doesn't seem to care about where you are and whatever you do.

21) He doesn't get jealous like he used to when you talk to your male friends on the phone.

22) He is reluctant to hold your hand in public.

23) He frequently turns his phone on silent.

24) He turns off his phone text message instant notification function.

25) He gets mad when you ask about his new working schedule.

26) He gets sensitive and impatient when you ask him about where he is.

27) He doesn't want you to get pregnant like he used to.

28) When you want to have sex, he always tells you he is tired from work.

29) He starts arguments and doesn't back down like he used to.

30) You find dinning receipts from upscale restaurants you have never been to.

31) He starts to lock his room when he is not home.

32) He sets identification user lock on his computer.

33) He deletes webpage browse history on his computer.

34) He takes shower as soon as he arrives home.

35) He used to let you shop for his underwear, and now he has new underwear not purchased by you.

36) He doesn't carry family photo in his wallet like he used to.

37) He insists doing his own laundry.

38) He doesn't stay home on weekend like he used to.

39) He starts to treat you a lot nicer whenever he comes back from a business trip.

40) He gets offended and nervous when you asked about the miss calls on his cell phone.

41) You felt something is going on, and something is wrong but you are not sure what it is.

42) He mistakenly mentioned about having dinner in a restaurant he thought he had with you, but you have never been to that restaurant in your life.

Follow and trust your instinct, because women's intuition and instincts are often very accurate. However, don't start questioning him before you collect all of the solid evidences, because you could be wrong and have misread the true meaning behind his behaviors. Remember he will remain innocent until proven guilty. Even if his actions matches several above mentioned examples; you must use your own judgment and reference against the solid evidence you have collected before you go up and accuse him.

Furthermore, just because he seemed suspicious doesn't necessarily mean he is really cheating. Maybe he had legit and right reasons to back him up. Just because he starts to care about his appearance, it doesn't mean he is dating other women. If your man matches several clues or signs from the above list, now is the time for you to start and collect solid evidences of his infidelity!

Men' infidelity can be prevented if women understand men's motive, drive and how men's mindset works!

Sex - Here Are 5 Bad Things That Happen When You Fail To Give Your Woman Orgasms In The Bedroom

Women need ORGASMS but most men struggle to sexually satisfy their women. Read this article and find out about the bad things that can happen if you fail to give your woman orgasms and sexual satisfaction in the bedroom...

1. Your Woman Starts To Lose Interest In Sex:

When a woman is not sexually fulfilled and her man is not giving her orgasms in the bedroom, the first thing that usually happens is that she starts to lose interest in having sex.

Makes sense, right?

Women are no different -- they need to have orgasms in order to fully enjoy sex.

2. Your Woman Starts To Think About Other Men:

If you repeatedly fail to give your woman orgasms during sex, your woman may definitely start to think about other men -- men who she thinks could give her more SEXUAL PLEASURE than you can.

Once your woman starts to think about having sex with other men, in an effort to get the sexual satisfaction that she desires -- you are in trouble.

3. Your Woman Cheats On You:

50% of women admit to cheating on their men at least once. People only cheat when they are not happy and fulfilled in their relationship for one reason or another.

A huge reason why many women cheat is because they have a burning desire and serious need to have GREAT SEX, complete with mind-blowing orgasms.

If you don't give your woman that type of sexual pleasure -- she may well look elsewhere which is not good.

4. Your Woman Leaves You For Another Man:

Relationships fall apart all the time. Women leave men and men leave women.

Many women leave men at least in part because their sex-life was lousy and they found a new and more exciting sexual partner.

5. Your Sexual Confidence Decreases:

If you repeatedly fail to give your woman orgasms during sex, your sexual confidence will decrease and that's a very bad thing because it will lower your woman's attraction to you and make it even harder for her to take you seriously in the bedroom.

And if your woman doesn't take you seriously and respect you -- you'll really struggle to give her an orgasm. Period.

The bottom line is that most men are lousy lovers and most women are sexually unfulfilled to varying degrees.

If you want to have a happy and fulfilling sexual relationship with your woman -- you must give her vaginal orgasms. When you give her VAGINAL ORGASMS, she'll see you as the best she's ever had. Guaranteed.

Getting Out Of Your Bedroom Comfort Zone

First of all, this is about going just a bit out of your bedroom comfort zone. So, how do you go about being a little wilder in bed? Let us count the ways.

Pull Her To You: One of the mildest things you can do that will have a really thrilling effect on her is if you pull her – hard – towards you. It shows you want to be in command. It shows you can be ...... And it conveys the message that she is just there to pleasure you. I know that’s a lot of messages for a slightly rough act but don’t worry, she’ll think of it that way.

Consume Her: After some heavy (and I mean really heavy!) foreplay, go down and perform with your hands. However, don’t just do this for a few seconds and move on. Women hate that because it gives them the message that you just had to do it because it’s part of the ‘routine’ (sort of like having to pass by the bakery because it’s on the way home). No; this time, go down there with one single purpose: make her come.
This may shock your partner especially if you haven’t paid too much attention there before. In fact, once she feels really hot she may even be the one to try and pull you off (she’s not used to you making her come via that, you see). Well, whatever she does, stay there. You have a mission remember? Now don’t budge until you’ve achieved it!

Try Something Completely Different: When it comes to positions, try something completely out of the ‘routine’. Don’t do something too wild that you scare her though. Instead, just apply a simple variation to what you guys normally do. For example, instead of woman-on-top facing you, try reverse cow girl (woman-on-top but facing your feet). Here’s another hot one: reverse cow girl being milked, which is woman-on-top, facing your feet, but you have one leg bent. So as she straddles your member (her body slightly turned sideways), your bent leg is grazing her clitoris.
As for the missionary position, you can apply a lot of variety on that one too. Put a pillow under her bottom and then hold her legs (by the ankles) straight up in front of you as you enter her. Keeping her legs together as your move makes for a tighter fit.

Don’t Be Afraid To Make A Sound: Most men do not make a sound when they come. I guess they think it’s unmanly. However, you don’t need to emit a high-pitched scream to show her just how hard and magnificent your climax is. You can just groan a bit louder and harder. Once your woman hears just how much pleasure you’re getting from coming, you can bet she’ll be doing her darn best to really goad you on!
Start By Making Small Changes: You won’t believe how hotter your sexual relationship will be by just showing a wilder side to you.

Enjoy yourselves this weekend.

Uzodinma M.O.G

Five Things That Makes A Man Amazing In Bed!

So often do we hear of relationships breaking because “he was not exciting enough”! It is indeed sad but true that most men in the world do not know how to satisfy their women. And then the blame is squarely laid on the female mind most of the time. “Women are so unpredictable!” they would say. But did you know that most women think in a uniform manner and even respond almost similarly when they are with their men?

If you read that again, you will see that there are some tricks that you can use with your woman to make her feel that you are the greatest gift she has ever got.
Here are FIVE things that can make any man amazing in bed. Go give all of them a try!

How to be AMAZING in Bed

1. The Right Mood

There is no need to emphasize the importance of the role played by the mind in any sexual act. Most sexual acts that turn out to be ‘mediocre’ are largely because the people involved were not in the right mood. Now, you can be a real amazing man in bed if you could turn on the right mood for your woman. Do you think you can do that? Of course, you could!

What does a woman need to get her into the right mood? Oftentimes, just a few complimentary words can work wonders. Sometimes, even words are not necessary. The right touch, the right look… they can be enough. If your woman gets physically tired during the day, you can begin by massaging her body. You don’t know how much this touch can work her up and make her ready for what is to come.
Simple, thoughtful things you can do around your home works wonders too! For instance, tell her that there will be no cooking tonight. You’ll order out, buy some wine, (if you have kids, even offer arranging for the baby-sitter or make a better arrangement for them so that they will not disturb you both), rent a nice movie, etc. Do anything that will make her relax… and put her in the right sexual mood.

2. Sensitivity

Yes, men need to be sensitive when it comes to love and sex. It is absolutely essential for women. Women expect men to be considerate about their needs in bed too. In fact, most women will try to tease you when you attempt to go close to them. They might want something but say something else. If you are sensitive enough, you will be able to break through their words and actions and see the real truth behind them.

And most of all, a sensitive man will try to pleasure his woman as much as he receives pleasure. Foreplay is an extremely important part of the sexual act for women and ensuring that you engage in this thoroughly first will make you look simply amazing for her!

3. Affection

How affectionate are you with your woman? Do you touch her where she wants you to? Do you make eye contact with her when you are in bed together? Do you kiss her when making love? These are essential ways of showing affection. When you are making love to each other, some nonsexual things that you do can go a long way. You might caress her hair, for example, or you might just give her a look that you really love this. Most women would remember these ’signs’ for much longer than the actual sexual act.

4. Follow The Signs

Women are basically funny creatures. They will not mouth what they really want. This is where the man must cue in and understand what she needs. These will be very subtle signs – like a leading of the hand somewhere or a slight kiss on a sensitive part of the body. If you want to be labeled amazing in bed, you need to stop and read into these gestures. They are never done in vain; the woman wants something and you must understand it and give it to her.

5. Afterglow

They say love really happens in the moments a couple lies idly on their bed after making physical love. A man who just gets up and goes to get a shower after the act is over will never be remembered fondly by his partner. If you want to be called truly amazing in bed, really bask in the afterglow of sex; gently caressing her body with yours, cuddling, and others are important as women want to feel that you just didn’t use them as a sex toy. The best topic is to tell how good the sex was. That always paves the way for more and better sex later on!

In many ways, to be considered amazing in bed, you need to go beyond the sexual act itself. You must be sensitive to your partner’s needs and not just be concerned with your own climax.

Follow the tips above and your partner will truly consider you AMAZING

8 Little Things You Can Do To Get On Her Good Side Forever

Truely, women have 101 things that irritate them about the men in their lives but the truth is… they also find it hard to live without men! Men often say they’re clueless when it comes to women because, they CAN be hot and then cold in a matter of minutes! However, there are things that make their hearts melt almost instantly. So if you want to get on her good side all the time, then read on!

8 Reasons Why Women Love Men… An Extract From There Thought:

1. You Fix What’s Broken At Home.
We do love handymen! Sure, we’re all supportive of women power and all that stuff but deep inside nothing says “I’ll take care of you” more than a man who knows how to fix the roof… or plumbing… or the broken fence… etc.

2. You Cook Every Now And Then OR Get Take Out On Your Own Once In A While.
In most homes, women are the ones who cook and ensure that the family is fed. However, cooking 365 days a year can be taxing! So once in a while, surprise us and cook something. Really, it doesn’t have to be a 5-course meal. It can even just be take out. Just something that tells us that today is our ‘day off’ from the kitchen.

3. You Put Your Socks And Underwear In The Right Places.
Little things irritate us and little things make us happy. And putting your dirty laundry in the right place is one of those things that make us happy! We know it’s small thing to do but whenever you don’t do it here’s the message we get… ‘he’s not listening!’ or ‘he’s soooo insentsitive!’.

4. You Realize When There’s No More Toilet Paper… And Do Something About It!
Screw leaving the toilet seat up! Women can also be called upon always leaving the seat down, right? But when you see the toilet paper gone and never re-fill it? Hello, that’s just insensitive.

5. You Bring Home Flowers.
When men bring home flowers, it just literally brightens our day! It shows that you’re thinking of us and want to make us happy.

6. You Make Us Laugh!
We just love men with a good sense of humor! The ability to laugh at things is just what we need to lift us up from our drama episodes. And sometimes, when we’re extremely mad, just the right joke or funny face is all we need to banish all those frustrations aside.

7. Foot Massages! Bliss…
Sitting on the coach together, watching TV. You reach out and draw our legs up and on your lap. You remove our shoes/slippers/socks/stockings and you give a nice foot massage. Ah, we’re yours forever!

8. You Take Foreplay Seriously!
It’s really ironic that during the times we need attention most, that’s when you stop and move to the next stage. STAY exactly where you are for a while! We like enjoying the journey just as much as the destination. And, truth be told, we actually reach our destination better when the journey is good!

How to Improve Love Making - Secrets, Tips and Techniques

Heat Things Up in Bed with these Effective Tips on How to Improve Your Love Making Skills

One of the challenges that married and long-term couples have is how to keep the fires burning, so to speak, when it comes to their sex life. Sometimes, the problem lies in the couple becoming too comfortable with each other that their sex life already loses its spice. On the other hand, there are also couples who encounter a problem of having lost the romance or the excitement that they feel towards each other. What are you supposed to do if this is the case?

Basically, you need to learn how to improve your love life or how to improve your love relationship - which also involves learning how to improve your love making skills.

How to Improve Love Making: Spicing Things Up!

So the first step that you need to do in order to improve your love relationship is spicing things up in bed. Although it is true that relationships should not solely be based on sex, it does play a big part when it comes to your intimacy as a couple.

Let's say that you are always doing the deed in the confines of your bedroom. Taking sex outside of the bedroom is a sure fire way of spicing things up and thus improving your love making. The new environment is bound to add some excitement to the act - whether you're doing it in the kitchen, in the living room or some other place where there's no bed. The thrill of going for a quick make out or even a full-fledged love making session adds to the excitement.

Another thing that you should keep in mind to improve your love making skills is to stay out of your comfort zone. Even the simple deed of trying out a new position in bed, or role playing is already bound to revive the fire in your sex life so that you can improve your love relationship at the same time.

Most men also forget to bring back the romance into the relationship - which is something that you need to pay attention to if you are really willing to work on improving your love making techniques and save your relationship. Or maybe you're forgetting to indulge in a long-winded foreplay? If you're always in a hurry to get to the main event, this would not help at all with your efforts on how to improve your love life. All in all, heating things up in bed is all a matter of not hesitating to try out new things and being attuned to the needs of your lover.

For most couples, intimate love in bed plays a very big role and It over weights all other things If you want a solid relationship together. Don't be reluctant in trying new things and bring your old days back!

About the G-Spot Orgasm…

Women can orgasm several different ways, via clitoral, vaginal, and of course the G-Spot, the latter can give her a massively satisfying orgasm if stimulated correctly.
Here we will look at how to find it and give your partner immense pleasure once you do!

Where is the G Spot?

The G-Spot is the area to target for maximum sexual arousal.
You will be able to help give added pleasure and a mind blowing climax to your partner if you can locate and stimulate it.

The G-Spot is essentially a bean shaped area of nerve tissue, located about halfway between the back of the pubic bone and the top of a woman’s cervix.

The size and location of the G-Spot will vary between women, but it usually lies about 1.5 to 3 inside the vagina.

This area inside the vagina has a different texture; it’s ridged, not smooth like the rest of the vagina, and when aroused has a spongy feel.

The G-Spot is not easily located. Sometimes even women have a hard time finding it and some don’t even believe it exists, but it does.

All you need to do is to locate it and arouse it and with a little trial and error between you and your partner you can.

Locating the G Spot

To explore and find the G spot, have your partner lie down, knees bent and feet flat on the floor or bed, with a pillow under her buttocks for comfort.

Insert your fingers into her vagina towards her navel. This will be between 1.5 to 3 inches inside the vagina to find the exact spot.

Press with the fingers against the front wall of the vagina. As it’s surrounded by tissue and deep in the vaginal wall, you will need to apply a little pressure. When you finally hit the right spot, it will swell the same way a penis does.

Slide your fingers from side to side. Have your partner tell you when you hit the right place and you she will know, as you will see the reaction when you hit it!

G Spot Technique

When you have found it move your fingers in even circles all around the inside of the vagina walls.

It generally feels best for her if you keep consistent, firm pressure along the entire length of the vaginal walls and use a steady rotational rhythm.

Stop rotating your fingers and rest your fingertips on the ridged area of the G Spot. Then move the fingers in and out and do rotational movements to keep hitting the spot.

Finding a rhythm is what you are looking for here; keep moving the fingers in and out and around constantly hitting the G Spot.

Stimulating the G Spot to the level where it will ejaculate requires three components:

1.Time: Needs to be taken to work your partner up

2.Gentle attention: Listen to your partner and find out what gives her pleasure.

3.Tapping: Keep constantly tapping the G-spot while you are moving your fingers.

Penis stimulation

Penises curve and the ones that curve upwards are most likely to hit the G territory. However if your penis curves to the left or the right, all is not lost. There are options!

If your penis curves to the left, right or to the south, you can position yourself in such a way that your penis hits the spot i.e., you need to be in a position where your penis points north.

For example, if your penis curves to the side. You lie horizontally, she lies vertically and you gain the same impact and will be able to hit her G Spot.

If your penis curves downwards, place her on top of you but facing the other way, you will see her buttocks and then move to hit the G spot.

Finally…

The G Spot is there in women all you have to do is find it and stimulate it to give your partner huge pleasure.

There is a lot of mystique related to the spot but to find the G spot and give your partner pleasure is really all about communication.

She will be able to guide you, all you need to do is follow her instructions have patience and find out what’s right for her.

If you do, you will add another dimension to your relationship and your partner will be very grateful for your effort!