Hello Friends,
I'm going to start things off here by telling you
what you really DON'T want to hear...
And that's that there is NOT a single technique
that will ensure your woman's satisfaction.
Yes, it's true.
Techniques and thrusts are important but you'll get
much further by building a mood that eventually
sends her over the edge.
It's a bit difficult for us men to grasp, since a
warm vagina, or even a fist full of hand lotion,
is all it really takes to get where you need to be.
Just know that all of the kissing, touching,
licking, and caressing are vital parts for an
orgasm, not just stuff you do until you cum, if not
MORE important than the act of love making itself.
Over the following newsletter lesson's you'll learn
things to do with all aspects of lovemaking and
how to give your lady the best experience possible.
For now, perhaps a better understanding of the phases
a woman goes through to reach orgasm is in order.
PHASE I: THE BEGINNING
This is the part when she just decided she wants to
have sex. Her breathing is slightly heavier than
normal, and her pulse has quickened. Some serious
making out just may be in order at this point.
Let your hands wander all over her body. Run your
fingers through her hair, stroke her back, and even
get in a bit of nipple play. If your hands head
south of the border, avoid direct contact with her
clit. Use slow, gentle strokes. Rubbing your palm
slowly and deeply over her vaginal lips is a great
way to give her a hint of what's to come without
irritating her lady bits.
PHASE II: THE BUILD UP
Now things are really getting heated up. Her
breathing has turned into almost a pant, and she's
probably let out some audible moans. In this phase,
you can make more direct contact with the clitoris,
but don't just hang out there. Keep that indirect
contact going, but brush the head of the clit every
once in a while. Rub the sides along the shaft, and
then pinch the head. You can also vary strokes and
speeds at this point. You may want to rub the head
of the clit in a circular motion at a high
frequency, and then slowly rub the shaft up and
down. However you want to do it, just play!
PHASE III: THE BIG FINISH
Phase III is typically signaled by her screaming,
"Faster! Faster!" Now is not the time to mess
around. Get in there, and get the job done! Zero in
on that one spot, and rub it like you mean it! Use
quick, circular motions right on the head of the
clitoris until you hear her scream in ecstasy.
Peace,
John Uzodinma
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