Hello Friends,
Are you also someone who does not ever really feel confident that he knows exactly WHAT it is that a woman really want from her man in bed?
If you answered "yes" to any of these questions, then I've got two things to tell you:
One, you are NOT alone,
and Two, YOU are the Man who CAN and WILL be able to make a woman feel amazing and incredible in bed!
So let me give you some of the KEY and TOP tips that will IMMEDIATELY make you create amazing passion and desire in your woman in bed.
You should know that sex and foreplay start right inside a woman's mind.
So let's say you've done it all right. You've started sex and foreplay by seducing her mind and you have her all turned on.
I know you may be thinking, "OK, John, that's GREAT... so what EXACTLY DO we do?"
Good question.
How do you encourage this woman – who is basically very submissive in bed due to the fact that she does not have any experience or what she has is with Mr. "Pump and Dump?"
First a little insight into this woman's mindset...
The reason why she is submissive, much of the time, is that she has never explored her own sexuality.
A lot of women that have had "pump and dumpers" don't know what they want sexually, and they are usually women who have never masturbated. They don't know what feels good and what doesn't.
So how DO you encourage this woman to open up to her own sexuality?
Here are some of the TOP TECHNIQUES you can and should use to create maximum desire for you in bed:
DESIRE TIP #1
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First of all, this woman may or may not have ever had an orgasm before.
Tip: I would assume that she never has. She thinks she might be having an orgasm – it might be a momentary wave – but she is not having a full-blown orgasm.
If you ask her if she's had an orgasm, and she says, "I think so" – then you have your answer. There is no "I think so" when it comes down to orgasms. Either you've had one or you haven't!
If a woman will tell you that she thinks she had an orgasm, it means that she has probably only experienced a little wave of pleasure and not a full orgasmic experience.
DESIRE TIP #2
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So let's assume that she's never had an orgasm. You've got to become the teacher in this relationship.
She is probably the type of woman who just expects you to do whatever you want to do, and she'll just lie there submissively.
So YOU need to show her slowly how amazing sex is.
You would take some extra time and give her a full body massage.
You would spend extra time kissing her and just touching her, everywhere except in her breast and her groin area.
You would take extra time when you go down on her and also touch all parts of her body.
You would also slip one finger inside her in order to give her a different experience.
You wouldn't ask her if she is coming.
You would just continually do all the things that you know will bring pleasure to your woman, and you would ask her,
“How does that feel for you? Are you enjoying this? How do you like the pressure? I want to please you and I want to make you feel amazing.”
Don't say, “I want to give you an orgasm.” Don't tell her you want her to scream and yell.
Just say, “I want to make you feel wonderful. Okay?”
DESIRE TIP #3
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Then take your time. Allow her to open up and allow her to see sex in an entirely different light.
Don't expect the magical orgasm right away. Don't expect her to open up immediately.
Your only job is to show her – through a soothing, relaxing, attentive sexual session – just how great sex can be.
DESIRE TIP #4
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Another way to do it, too, is when you're having sex with her, is to do the opposite of what the "pump and dumpers" does.
Hold her really close to you so she can feel the tightness and feel the sensuality of sex, and then go in very slowly as you pull her close to you. That way your pubic bone is actually massaging her clit at the same time.
By doing that and staying deep inside her, you're going to give her feelings that she has not had before and you're going to get her to open up. You may actually get her to start having a clitoral orgasm that way, in time.
You are also going to show her a different side of sex, going to show her the sensuality of sex so that she can feel protected, warm, and nurtured during the experience.
You've got to be tender and warm, and you've got to put absolutely no pressure on her at all.
By following these simple steps and tips, you're going to make her feel really comfortable, and you're going to be able to get her to explore herself even more.
She'll surrender herself to you, in time, but you need to be very
patient.
Uzodinma (M.O.G)
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