Some women failed to spot and have overlooked their husband's signs and clues of cheating, they are often the last one to know about their man's infidelity. Don't be that WOMAN! To avoid becoming that poor woman, women must to learn how to catch the cheater in the earliest stage. Before you learn how to catch the cheater, you need to know how to spot signs and clues of men's cheating behaviors. Men's cheating behaviors often have similar clues, signs and patterns. So, how do women tell the difference between an innocent and a real cheating behavior? Clues and signs of men's cheating do vary from time to time, but when a man shows multiple suspicious signs or clues of cheating behaviors, his woman should have a serious doubt that he might be cheating.
The following is a list of 42 men's cheating signs, clues, and behaviors:
1) He has more frequent work overtime.
2) He has more frequent business trips.
3) When he picks up his cell phone calls at home he always whispers, or he would walk to another room first, and then pick up the call.
4) He stops wearing his wedding ring.
5) You caught him many times not wearing his ring, and so he always told you he forgot to put it back after he took a shower.
6) Whenever you go out, he goes out right after you.
7) He goes to the gym more frequently than he used to.
8) He picks on your flaws more frequently than he used to.
9) He gives you more freedom than he used to, and doesn't seem to care when you come home late.
10) He doesn't tell you about his day off from work, and pretends to go to work as usual.
11) He is more critical towards you, and gets irritated when you make tiny mistakes.
12) He doesn't try to comfort and pamper you like he used when you are sad.
13) He refuses to have sex with you.
14) He doesn't touch or kiss you like he used to.
15) He starts to care about his appearance.
16) He starts to use skin care products, which he refused to use in the past.
17) There is lipstick mark on his shirt collar.
18) You smell women's perfume on him.
19) You smell fresh shower gel on his skin when he comes home from work.
20) He doesn't seem to care about where you are and whatever you do.
21) He doesn't get jealous like he used to when you talk to your male friends on the phone.
22) He is reluctant to hold your hand in public.
23) He frequently turns his phone on silent.
24) He turns off his phone text message instant notification function.
25) He gets mad when you ask about his new working schedule.
26) He gets sensitive and impatient when you ask him about where he is.
27) He doesn't want you to get pregnant like he used to.
28) When you want to have sex, he always tells you he is tired from work.
29) He starts arguments and doesn't back down like he used to.
30) You find dinning receipts from upscale restaurants you have never been to.
31) He starts to lock his room when he is not home.
32) He sets identification user lock on his computer.
33) He deletes webpage browse history on his computer.
34) He takes shower as soon as he arrives home.
35) He used to let you shop for his underwear, and now he has new underwear not purchased by you.
36) He doesn't carry family photo in his wallet like he used to.
37) He insists doing his own laundry.
38) He doesn't stay home on weekend like he used to.
39) He starts to treat you a lot nicer whenever he comes back from a business trip.
40) He gets offended and nervous when you asked about the miss calls on his cell phone.
41) You felt something is going on, and something is wrong but you are not sure what it is.
42) He mistakenly mentioned about having dinner in a restaurant he thought he had with you, but you have never been to that restaurant in your life.
Follow and trust your instinct, because women's intuition and instincts are often very accurate. However, don't start questioning him before you collect all of the solid evidences, because you could be wrong and have misread the true meaning behind his behaviors. Remember he will remain innocent until proven guilty. Even if his actions matches several above mentioned examples; you must use your own judgment and reference against the solid evidence you have collected before you go up and accuse him.
Furthermore, just because he seemed suspicious doesn't necessarily mean he is really cheating. Maybe he had legit and right reasons to back him up. Just because he starts to care about his appearance, it doesn't mean he is dating other women. If your man matches several clues or signs from the above list, now is the time for you to start and collect solid evidences of his infidelity!
Men' infidelity can be prevented if women understand men's motive, drive and how men's mindset works!
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