Are you worried about your relationship?
Were you with a man who pulled away and now you're wondering how to get the romance back?
Have you tried connecting with him but he's taken days to get back to you?
If you're wondering if he's still into you or if he still loves you, the worst way to find out is to chase him by giving him all of your attention. You may have been doing this and notice its not working for you. There is another authentic and fast way to find out if he's still into you and it's called digital foreplay.
What is digital foreplay?
We all know how powerful simple words can be when said in the right way. And texting is no different. You can use text messages to find out if your man is still into you but you have to do it the right way.
Imagine what it would be like if he got a message from you that triggered just the right feelings inside of him to make him want to respond. Messages that make you come off as confident and not desperate for his attention. Simple text messages that can create a new magic spark inside of him.
The quickest way to know if he's still in love with you is by testing out the waters so to speak.
You can also put the magic back into your life if you understand some easy principles behind how to use text messages to trigger attraction. I have to warn you because I've heard of some who do this and it's backfired on them:
1. They didn't send the right messages and
2. They didn't put themselves first, they were only thinking about the man's feelings.
Try to avoid doing this if you want real results. In the end, it really matters that you care enough about yourself first as well as care about someone else's feelings. Instead of spending all of your energy worried about his feelings for you, think about how spectacular you are then use text messages to bring the romance back. It has worked for many others and it could work for you.
Now I want you to know that what is romantic to you may not feel romantic to him. Men are visual. That being said, if you are going to send him romantic texts, you want to stimulate his imagination. A man falls in love in his imagination.
With just a few well placed romantic text messages, you could re-ignite the passion in your relationship, catapult his attraction, make him miss you, and fall in love over again. Your husband has an internal switch that you may not have known about and if you are able to push this inner switch, you can get him to be romantic at command. One of the ways you trigger this switch is through curiosity. You can send him a text message that will get his attention fast and make him feel connected to you in a romantic way.
Text Love To His Heart
How do men fall in love? They fall in love in their imaginations and this happens when they think about you. When a man thinks about you, his imagination fills in the blanks. When texting a man in order to get to his heart, you have to send just enough to keep him curious. Give his imagination the room to fill in the blanks.
If you start painting pictures in his mind, then pique his interest with one sentence that will make him think, you will get inside his mind. The key is saying something out of the ordinary that will make him think. When he starts to think about you often, his mind will come to love what it thinks about. Many women make the mistake of giving too much information in their texts. They get too mushy and leave no room for his imagination.
Also remember when texting romantic messages or love messages, less really is more. If you bombard him with texts, it will back fire on you and you will be annoying. Timing is everything. You want to give him just enough to bait his imagination, and leave him wanting more.
Here is an example of leaving him wanting more:
Her: Crazy morning my Love, I had to rush to get dressed and you will never guess what I opted NOT to wear today.
Him: Oh tell me
Her: mmm, that's my little secret.
As you can see, now his imagination is in gear. She could take it further by painting a picture that she is wearing a dress. This builds sexual tension and will have him thinking all sorts of things and painting his own visual pictures in his mind. The message is also playful. Men adore playful women. Making your romantic text messages playful is what I am trying to say.
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