Many women don"t grasp the power of using romantic text messages to get their men to become more romantic. If you have been trying to talk your man into taking you out more, doing more things for you or spending more time listening to your needs, you have to stop for a moment and consider how much love you can be experiencing right now if you know how to send him the right messages.
There is a way to get the attention you want, you can't just send him a sexy message and expect that is going to do it. You have to know exactly how to go about keeping the momentum going so that it can spark the right feelings inside of him.
Below are 5 Crucial Tips To Accomplish This:
1. You have to use your power as a woman and stop feeling like you're powerless. This is exactly what's causing you to come off as begging your man to give you attention. He sees desperation. Stop begging and start texting.
2. You have to understand how to push his romantic buttons. Men are motivated differently than women are. Telling him you miss him will not get him to stand up and pay attention. Paint a picture in his mind and create the mood and you will see him stand up and pay attention.
3. Once you send him the first text or reply to his initial text, you have to be very careful. You have to strike a good balance or it will go no where. Think about your texts as a status update on your profile. This isn't the time to write a romantic letter, it's time to get in the game and have some fun.
4. Be the Mystery Woman. Without mystery, his mind will have no room to explore you. You want him to explore you from the inside out but you don't want him to have all the cake at once. Make him wait and create intrigue. Leave him wanting more.
5. Curiosity creates intrigue. Once the ball is rolling, don't answer his questions directly but pretend that you don't really understand what he's saying in a playful manner. Make him have to work a bit to know where you're leading him. This challenges him and men love a challenge.
Don't ever bother to apologize to your man if you're giving him a mental challenge and he gets bent out of shape. Don't worry about it. The more he has to think, the better it is for you. If he replied that he didn't understand what you mean, just roll with it or you'll kill the attraction. Stop worrying so much what he thinks.
Most women think they can just send any text messages to get a stalling relationship to move forward, but let me tell you that if you don't know what you're doing, you will make your relationship worse. If you are sending him messages that appeal to you, you are making a big mistake. Men aren't women.
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