Top 10 Things Women Wish Men Do Before, During and After Sex

BEFORE SEX, A WOMAN WANTS HER MAN TO...

1. Take A Shower – Going caveman on her is a turn on only if the man smells and tastes good. She would definitely volunteer to give her partner whatever he wants if he comes out of the shower smelling fresh and clean. Hairy men need to pay particular attention to their hygiene as hairiness will always mean more deep seated dirt that could cause odor when mingled with sweat.

2. Woo Her To Bed – Even if you have been married for a long time, a lady wants to be seduced, enticed and tempted. During the day, a man should drop subtle signs that he wants to do it with her that night. It could be a tiny pinch on the hand while she’s fixing dinner or a playful butt slap when she passes by with the laundry. Catching her eye and giving her the “sex me up” look makes her feel sexy and excited to do just that.

3. Give Her A Massage – Texture play is as much a woman’s thing as it is a man’s. There’s nothing more sensual than feeling his hand all over her body before sex. A massage is completely one way, and a woman loves to feel pampered. There’s a good chance that a man can get her to agree to anything he wants during sex if he gives her a good backrub first.

DURING SEX, A WOMAN WANTS HER MAN TO...

4. Take The Leader Role – Ladies are traditionally submissive and even the women who want to take charge during sex need to be told the direction to take. It is the man’s job to set the pace of the love making, and this includes telling her how he wants it, asking her to try new things and suggesting the best way for her to achieve the best orgasm.

5. Prolong Foreplay – There are men who jump a woman as soon as she’s naked and with legs spread wide. Make no mistake of it, a woman loves to feel her man’s hard penis inside her, but foreplay is a way to get her comfortable and prepped for orgasm. Experimenting with different pleasure spots will go a long way in keeping her wet during actual penetration. Make her want to go on top by prolonging foreplay enough to increase her urge to a feverish pitch.

6. Eat Her Out – the feel of a man’s tongue on a woman’s sensitive parts is both mentally and physically gratifying. If a man takes the time to pay proper homage to a woman’s portal of love, he will make her want to return the favor.

AFTER SEX, A WOMAN WANTS HER MAN TO…

7. Cuddle – A woman feels like basking in the aftermath of love making by cuddling with her partner. There are some women who feel emotional after sex, and a few ‘happy’ tears could be shed. Making her feel special after sex will make her consider a second round.

8. Be Ready For Another Round – Older men may find the request for another round immediately after the first as unreasonable. But we are talking about what women want here, and she definitely wants another round when the first one was so intense.

9. Fall Asleep With Her – There is nothing more romantic than falling asleep (or more appropriately, passing out) together after sex. She will feel very sleepy after a wonderful love making session, and a man has to wait only a few minutes before he can stand up to pee.

LASTLY, A WOMAN WANTS A MAN TO…

10. Stay Erect Before And During Sex! A rock hard erection will convey the message of desire and willingness to have the best night of love ever.

Five Things That Makes A Man Amazing In Bed!

So often do we hear of relationships breaking because “he was not exciting enough”! It is indeed sad but true that most men in the world do not know how to satisfy their women. And then the blame is squarely laid on the female mind most of the time. “Women are so unpredictable!” they would say. But did you know that most women think in a uniform manner and even respond almost similarly when they are with their men?

If you read that again, you will see that there are some tricks that you can use with your woman to make her feel that you are the greatest gift she has ever got.
Here are FIVE things that can make any man amazing in bed. Go give all of them a try!

How to be AMAZING in Bed

1. The Right Mood

There is no need to emphasize the importance of the role played by the mind in any sexual act. Most sexual acts that turn out to be ‘mediocre’ are largely because the people involved were not in the right mood. Now, you can be a real amazing man in bed if you could turn on the right mood for your woman. Do you think you can do that? Of course, you could!

What does a woman need to get her into the right mood? Oftentimes, just a few complimentary words can work wonders. Sometimes, even words are not necessary. The right touch, the right look… they can be enough. If your woman gets physically tired during the day, you can begin by massaging her body. You don’t know how much this touch can work her up and make her ready for what is to come.
Simple, thoughtful things you can do around your home works wonders too! For instance, tell her that there will be no cooking tonight. You’ll order out, buy some wine, (if you have kids, even offer arranging for the baby-sitter or make a better arrangement for them so that they will not disturb you both), rent a nice movie, etc. Do anything that will make her relax… and put her in the right sexual mood.

2. Sensitivity

Yes, men need to be sensitive when it comes to love and sex. It is absolutely essential for women. Women expect men to be considerate about their needs in bed too. In fact, most women will try to tease you when you attempt to go close to them. They might want something but say something else. If you are sensitive enough, you will be able to break through their words and actions and see the real truth behind them.

And most of all, a sensitive man will try to pleasure his woman as much as he receives pleasure. Foreplay is an extremely important part of the sexual act for women and ensuring that you engage in this thoroughly first will make you look simply amazing for her!

3. Affection

How affectionate are you with your woman? Do you touch her where she wants you to? Do you make eye contact with her when you are in bed together? Do you kiss her when making love? These are essential ways of showing affection. When you are making love to each other, some nonsexual things that you do can go a long way. You might caress her hair, for example, or you might just give her a look that you really love this. Most women would remember these ’signs’ for much longer than the actual sexual act.

4. Follow The Signs

Women are basically funny creatures. They will not mouth what they really want. This is where the man must cue in and understand what she needs. These will be very subtle signs – like a leading of the hand somewhere or a slight kiss on a sensitive part of the body. If you want to be labeled amazing in bed, you need to stop and read into these gestures. They are never done in vain; the woman wants something and you must understand it and give it to her.

5. Afterglow

They say love really happens in the moments a couple lies idly on their bed after making physical love. A man who just gets up and goes to get a shower after the act is over will never be remembered fondly by his partner. If you want to be called truly amazing in bed, really bask in the afterglow of sex; gently caressing her body with yours, cuddling, and others are important as women want to feel that you just didn’t use them as a sex toy. The best topic is to tell how good the sex was. That always paves the way for more and better sex later on!

In many ways, to be considered amazing in bed, you need to go beyond the sexual act itself. You must be sensitive to your partner’s needs and not just be concerned with your own climax.

Follow the tips above and your partner will truly consider you AMAZING

8 Little Things You Can Do To Get On Her Good Side Forever

Truely, women have 101 things that irritate them about the men in their lives but the truth is… they also find it hard to live without men! Men often say they’re clueless when it comes to women because, they CAN be hot and then cold in a matter of minutes! However, there are things that make their hearts melt almost instantly. So if you want to get on her good side all the time, then read on!

8 Reasons Why Women Love Men… An Extract From There Thought:

1. You Fix What’s Broken At Home.
We do love handymen! Sure, we’re all supportive of women power and all that stuff but deep inside nothing says “I’ll take care of you” more than a man who knows how to fix the roof… or plumbing… or the broken fence… etc.

2. You Cook Every Now And Then OR Get Take Out On Your Own Once In A While.
In most homes, women are the ones who cook and ensure that the family is fed. However, cooking 365 days a year can be taxing! So once in a while, surprise us and cook something. Really, it doesn’t have to be a 5-course meal. It can even just be take out. Just something that tells us that today is our ‘day off’ from the kitchen.

3. You Put Your Socks And Underwear In The Right Places.
Little things irritate us and little things make us happy. And putting your dirty laundry in the right place is one of those things that make us happy! We know it’s small thing to do but whenever you don’t do it here’s the message we get… ‘he’s not listening!’ or ‘he’s soooo insentsitive!’.

4. You Realize When There’s No More Toilet Paper… And Do Something About It!
Screw leaving the toilet seat up! Women can also be called upon always leaving the seat down, right? But when you see the toilet paper gone and never re-fill it? Hello, that’s just insensitive.

5. You Bring Home Flowers.
When men bring home flowers, it just literally brightens our day! It shows that you’re thinking of us and want to make us happy.

6. You Make Us Laugh!
We just love men with a good sense of humor! The ability to laugh at things is just what we need to lift us up from our drama episodes. And sometimes, when we’re extremely mad, just the right joke or funny face is all we need to banish all those frustrations aside.

7. Foot Massages! Bliss…
Sitting on the coach together, watching TV. You reach out and draw our legs up and on your lap. You remove our shoes/slippers/socks/stockings and you give a nice foot massage. Ah, we’re yours forever!

8. You Take Foreplay Seriously!
It’s really ironic that during the times we need attention most, that’s when you stop and move to the next stage. STAY exactly where you are for a while! We like enjoying the journey just as much as the destination. And, truth be told, we actually reach our destination better when the journey is good!

THE ART OF KISSING !!!

One of the best ways to prolong foreplay is to indulge in the many ways you and your partner can kiss each other. Here are a few tips for you.

1) The Bent Kiss is the type of kiss that’s meant for ‘deep tongue penetration’. It requires one partner to be taller or be at an elevated height than the other. For couples with differing heights, no problem but for couples of equal heights, try kissing while one of you is sitting on the table or sink. The objective is to have one bending over the other for maximum tongue playing.

2) The Upper Lip Kiss is when you kiss the upper lip of your partner, making your partner focus on your lower lip. This type of kiss allows for a different type of sensation like a little sucking of the lips.

3) The Upside-Down Kiss is literally kissing each other while upside-down. Don’t worry; you don’t need any form of acrobatics here. For example, initiate foreplay while your partner is watching TV. Touch his/her shoulders from behind the couch, give him/her a hug, bend over his/her head and start the kiss!

I just gave you two pointers here. Firstly, let your partner know you’re behind him/her! Think about it. How would you react if there was this big head appearing in your line of vision all of a sudden! Secondly, proceed gently, the ‘hug’ part lets your partner know you’re in a ‘tender, loving place’ and because he/she knows this, the kiss you give will be more welcome.

Also, do time your upside-down kiss well! There’s no point in initiating foreplay during the championship or premier league when your man is watching either Chelsea or Arsenal match. You are setting yourself up badly and you know it! Men, if you know she’s REALLY into Oprah, watching home movie, now is not the time for you to initiate this either.

4) Kiss and Lick (a.k.a. tongue bathing) is when you ensure that you kiss and lick your partner in ‘equal portions’. So many of us do not lick enough! So when you feel that your partner wants to immediately move on to lovemaking, delay it by engaging in some licking. Be sure to make the change subtle and to alternate between kissing and licking.

5) The Awakening Kiss is the kiss you want to do if you want to initiate foreplay in the morning or whenever your partner is sleeping. Personally, I call it the “Sleeping Kiss” because basically you start kissing your partner gently while he/she is still asleep. Don’t make the kiss too wet or too aggressive. Remember, you want your partner to awaken to ‘gentle, sensual pleasures’ and not to a rough smooching.

6) Chocolate Kisses is as simple as it sounds, pop a piece of chocolate in your mouth, melt it a bit and when it’s soft… go for the kiss! You can do some variations of this depending on what you and your partner love to eat. For example, butter mint is good for most people. Just be sure it’s something your partner loves to eat as well!

There you go. Add these kiss variations into your foreplay repertoire and your partner will surely be surprised, delighted and excited by all these NEW things that are going on in your relationship.

Ladies, Celebrate Your Breasts

Whether you think that your breasts are too small, too big etc, you will agree with me that one thing you wouldn’t want to do is to part with your pairs. Besides giving your babies essential nutrients and vitamins for long healthy lives, your breasts do a lot to up the oh-factor during those lengthy, steamy baby-making sessions.

I have come up with a few ways to love your favorites set of twins more …

One More Reason Why Ladies Have More Fun…
A 2006 study reported that 82% of women reported that manipulation of their nipples and breasts enhanced sexual arousal. Large nipples have more nerve endings. And most women have bigger pointers than their dudes… thus higher stimulation. Large nipples tend to be more sensitive than small ones.
If the pressure is causing you the woman more pain than pleasure, tell your man to ease up on the sucking and switch it up with some slow, strong tongue action.

They’ve Got Some Real Growth Potential…
Experts say that a woman boobs can grow up to 25 percent bigger when they are aroused. So if you are looking for a little breast enhancement during your next love making session to suit your man’s desire shape and size, you can squeeze those boobs of yours with your upper arm or you direct or tell your man on how to do it for you; they’ll (your breast) follow your leads.

You Can Give Them Some textural Seduction…
The nerve endings in your breasts will respond positive to more than just a firm squeeze from your man’s hand. Try rubbing different textures, like silk, lace or smooth body cream across your breast for new sensation.

You Can Take Them To The Top…
The skin just above the areola is actually the most sensitive area on the breast, with the areola coming in second and the nipple third. If you want chills down your spine, have your man gently trace line that separates the darker and lighter area’s of your breasts with a cube of ice and then retrace his steps with his warm tongue.


Size Matters…
How big your breasts are can determine how they like to be touched. Smaller boobs have a higher concentration of nerve endings that makes them more sensitive to heavy pressure. Bigger boobs are said to be less sensitive because they have extra fatty tissue and their nerves are slightly stretched that means they can take a little extra-firm squeeze along with some light pinching and nibbling.

How to Improve Love Making - Secrets, Tips and Techniques

Heat Things Up in Bed with these Effective Tips on How to Improve Your Love Making Skills

One of the challenges that married and long-term couples have is how to keep the fires burning, so to speak, when it comes to their sex life. Sometimes, the problem lies in the couple becoming too comfortable with each other that their sex life already loses its spice. On the other hand, there are also couples who encounter a problem of having lost the romance or the excitement that they feel towards each other. What are you supposed to do if this is the case?

Basically, you need to learn how to improve your love life or how to improve your love relationship - which also involves learning how to improve your love making skills.

How to Improve Love Making: Spicing Things Up!

So the first step that you need to do in order to improve your love relationship is spicing things up in bed. Although it is true that relationships should not solely be based on sex, it does play a big part when it comes to your intimacy as a couple.

Let's say that you are always doing the deed in the confines of your bedroom. Taking sex outside of the bedroom is a sure fire way of spicing things up and thus improving your love making. The new environment is bound to add some excitement to the act - whether you're doing it in the kitchen, in the living room or some other place where there's no bed. The thrill of going for a quick make out or even a full-fledged love making session adds to the excitement.

Another thing that you should keep in mind to improve your love making skills is to stay out of your comfort zone. Even the simple deed of trying out a new position in bed, or role playing is already bound to revive the fire in your sex life so that you can improve your love relationship at the same time.

Most men also forget to bring back the romance into the relationship - which is something that you need to pay attention to if you are really willing to work on improving your love making techniques and save your relationship. Or maybe you're forgetting to indulge in a long-winded foreplay? If you're always in a hurry to get to the main event, this would not help at all with your efforts on how to improve your love life. All in all, heating things up in bed is all a matter of not hesitating to try out new things and being attuned to the needs of your lover.

For most couples, intimate love in bed plays a very big role and It over weights all other things If you want a solid relationship together. Don't be reluctant in trying new things and bring your old days back!

Why Some Men Can't Please Women Sexually and How to Make A Woman Scream With Desire

Women love sex and will worship men who know how to be masters at pleasing them. There's nothing more awful than a lousy lover. Men who don't have a clue how to please a woman. What's even worse are men who don't know how to turn a woman on to the point where every muscle in her body wants him like nothing else matters.

The sad thing is the way men are taught about sex. Most men learn about sex from magazines or watching videos when they were teenagers, not how to be great lovers. Or maybe you are a man who learned from your fellow boys while you were in the locker room during secondary school days.

The reason why so many men fail to please their women is because they don't know how. You don't want to be left out in the dark any longer, do you? Trust me, if you want your woman to talk to her girlfriends about how awesome you are, you have to learn to step up your game. Don't think you already know everything, there is so much to learn about women and how their bodies work.

The vast majority of men don't know anything about stamina or ejaculation control. Let me tell you how to really please your woman:
You have to learn how to prolong her pleasure by knowing how to control your body. She wants to beg you over and over again to kiss her until she starts acting like a wild stallion. If you don't know how to control your semen, you will never be the kind of lover she desires and she will secretly crave a man who .....

A man who wants to master the art of seducing and pleasing his woman will learn about every part of a woman's vagina including her g-spot, her clitoris and the hundreds of nerve endings there. He'll also learn about the secret tunnels in her body. Her curves and her love spots. You can give her multiple orgasms with just a touch of your finger, did you know that?

Since you're a man, you may not want to come right out and have to ask her for directions on how to really please her. She's expecting you to be man enough to know what to do so she doesn't have to worry about "over thinking" when you're being intimate.

She as well as many women loves sex and want you to bring out her raw desire. I'm telling you that she wants to go to the mountaintops because I talk with few of my female friends most of the time and this is what they want. They love men who can take them for the ride of their lives and give them the kind of loving that they want to keep coming back for.