Sex - Here Are 5 Bad Things That Happen When You Fail To Give Your Woman Orgasms In The Bedroom

Women need ORGASMS but most men struggle to sexually satisfy their women. Read this article and find out about the bad things that can happen if you fail to give your woman orgasms and sexual satisfaction in the bedroom...

1. Your Woman Starts To Lose Interest In Sex:

When a woman is not sexually fulfilled and her man is not giving her orgasms in the bedroom, the first thing that usually happens is that she starts to lose interest in having sex.

Makes sense, right?

Women are no different -- they need to have orgasms in order to fully enjoy sex.

2. Your Woman Starts To Think About Other Men:

If you repeatedly fail to give your woman orgasms during sex, your woman may definitely start to think about other men -- men who she thinks could give her more SEXUAL PLEASURE than you can.

Once your woman starts to think about having sex with other men, in an effort to get the sexual satisfaction that she desires -- you are in trouble.

3. Your Woman Cheats On You:

50% of women admit to cheating on their men at least once. People only cheat when they are not happy and fulfilled in their relationship for one reason or another.

A huge reason why many women cheat is because they have a burning desire and serious need to have GREAT SEX, complete with mind-blowing orgasms.

If you don't give your woman that type of sexual pleasure -- she may well look elsewhere which is not good.

4. Your Woman Leaves You For Another Man:

Relationships fall apart all the time. Women leave men and men leave women.

Many women leave men at least in part because their sex-life was lousy and they found a new and more exciting sexual partner.

5. Your Sexual Confidence Decreases:

If you repeatedly fail to give your woman orgasms during sex, your sexual confidence will decrease and that's a very bad thing because it will lower your woman's attraction to you and make it even harder for her to take you seriously in the bedroom.

And if your woman doesn't take you seriously and respect you -- you'll really struggle to give her an orgasm. Period.

The bottom line is that most men are lousy lovers and most women are sexually unfulfilled to varying degrees.

If you want to have a happy and fulfilling sexual relationship with your woman -- you must give her vaginal orgasms. When you give her VAGINAL ORGASMS, she'll see you as the best she's ever had. Guaranteed.

Five Things That Makes A Man Amazing In Bed!

So often do we hear of relationships breaking because “he was not exciting enough”! It is indeed sad but true that most men in the world do not know how to satisfy their women. And then the blame is squarely laid on the female mind most of the time. “Women are so unpredictable!” they would say. But did you know that most women think in a uniform manner and even respond almost similarly when they are with their men?

If you read that again, you will see that there are some tricks that you can use with your woman to make her feel that you are the greatest gift she has ever got.
Here are FIVE things that can make any man amazing in bed. Go give all of them a try!

How to be AMAZING in Bed

1. The Right Mood

There is no need to emphasize the importance of the role played by the mind in any sexual act. Most sexual acts that turn out to be ‘mediocre’ are largely because the people involved were not in the right mood. Now, you can be a real amazing man in bed if you could turn on the right mood for your woman. Do you think you can do that? Of course, you could!

What does a woman need to get her into the right mood? Oftentimes, just a few complimentary words can work wonders. Sometimes, even words are not necessary. The right touch, the right look… they can be enough. If your woman gets physically tired during the day, you can begin by massaging her body. You don’t know how much this touch can work her up and make her ready for what is to come.
Simple, thoughtful things you can do around your home works wonders too! For instance, tell her that there will be no cooking tonight. You’ll order out, buy some wine, (if you have kids, even offer arranging for the baby-sitter or make a better arrangement for them so that they will not disturb you both), rent a nice movie, etc. Do anything that will make her relax… and put her in the right sexual mood.

2. Sensitivity

Yes, men need to be sensitive when it comes to love and sex. It is absolutely essential for women. Women expect men to be considerate about their needs in bed too. In fact, most women will try to tease you when you attempt to go close to them. They might want something but say something else. If you are sensitive enough, you will be able to break through their words and actions and see the real truth behind them.

And most of all, a sensitive man will try to pleasure his woman as much as he receives pleasure. Foreplay is an extremely important part of the sexual act for women and ensuring that you engage in this thoroughly first will make you look simply amazing for her!

3. Affection

How affectionate are you with your woman? Do you touch her where she wants you to? Do you make eye contact with her when you are in bed together? Do you kiss her when making love? These are essential ways of showing affection. When you are making love to each other, some nonsexual things that you do can go a long way. You might caress her hair, for example, or you might just give her a look that you really love this. Most women would remember these ’signs’ for much longer than the actual sexual act.

4. Follow The Signs

Women are basically funny creatures. They will not mouth what they really want. This is where the man must cue in and understand what she needs. These will be very subtle signs – like a leading of the hand somewhere or a slight kiss on a sensitive part of the body. If you want to be labeled amazing in bed, you need to stop and read into these gestures. They are never done in vain; the woman wants something and you must understand it and give it to her.

5. Afterglow

They say love really happens in the moments a couple lies idly on their bed after making physical love. A man who just gets up and goes to get a shower after the act is over will never be remembered fondly by his partner. If you want to be called truly amazing in bed, really bask in the afterglow of sex; gently caressing her body with yours, cuddling, and others are important as women want to feel that you just didn’t use them as a sex toy. The best topic is to tell how good the sex was. That always paves the way for more and better sex later on!

In many ways, to be considered amazing in bed, you need to go beyond the sexual act itself. You must be sensitive to your partner’s needs and not just be concerned with your own climax.

Follow the tips above and your partner will truly consider you AMAZING

Touch to Relax, Touch to Electrify

Different types of touch bring different responses, from relaxing you enough to be available for sex, to eliciting sexual arousal.

In this stressed-out culture, relaxation is an important precursor to lovemaking, and most lovers need some way to relax in order to be most sexually responsive, as opposed to just using quick sex as a stress release. One way to relax is through massage. You and your lover can take turns massaging each other.

Massage is usually most relaxing when the muscles are squeezed and kneaded with a medium to firm touch, but feed back from the recipient should be the guide.

Once a person is relaxed, the skin can be awakened and erotic energy can be aroused and moved throughout the body with feather-light touch. The wispy touch of your fingertips, or tongue, grazing gently over the skin can be electric and awakens nerve endings in a way that firmer touch doesn't.

When erotically touching your woman, start with the extremities (ideally her hands and feet) whenever possible, gradually moving energy toward her core. Don't touch her nipples until you have stroked her shoulders, the sides of her torso and/or circled her breasts. Her energy awakens and moves more slowly than most men, gradually igniting her sexual passion as it flows toward her genitals like water to the lowest spot. Be sure to also caress her belly and thighs and circle her genitals before directly stimulating them.

Most men, on the other hand, benefit from light erotic touch that helps bring sexual energy out of his penis and spreads it to the rest of his body. This helps him experience his sexuality throughout his body, can enable him to last longer during intercourse, and enhances his potential to have multiple orgasms before ejaculation. So, lightly stroke him from the genitals outward, up his chest, around his buttocks, down his thighs, and out to his head, hands and feet.

However, if a man is having difficulty getting or maintaining an erection, the opposite is in order. Move the energy toward the penis by starting with the extremities and moving inward. Also, rather than requiring the blood to fight gravity while he lies on his back, a man who needs help getting an erection might want to kneel, stand or lie over his partner in a way that allows the blood to flow down into his penis while his partner strokes his body with electrifying feather-light touch.

Irrespective of your age, you can be a youth at heart. Make yourself young at heart and have a wonderful time with your partner.

How To Satisfy A Man In Bed

Sometimes, being physical with your man whom you love dearly, becomes dull and monotonous. Why so? This is a fact, everything in this world seems to get dull, though it is not so, it is the style or manner with which we handle certain things and situations that become dull. And for that, one or the other has to make some efforts to make things exciting around you.

And if your sexual activity with your man is getting quite predictable, then its the time to bring some changes. Do not always take your man for granted, I mean, do not always expect him to initiate the love-making, why can't you begin to express what you desire for?

This will make the environment really hot!!! Your man will feel the happiest ever!

As surprises are always welcome to make your relationship happening!

Wake him up with sex, giving his body your hot sighs and sensuous gestures anywhere and everywhere you like! This is the hottest thing a woman can do to arouse her man to the climax. I bet! Never lie down on bed with your man like a dummy, instead take the initiative to make your man happy.

Just ignore other distractions around or outside your bedroom- At the time of love-making, if there is happening something outside your house or the voices of your family members trying to distract you. Just look into each other's eyes and have a laugh and continue.

Also, do not hesitate to tell your man indirectly, that what and how you want him to treat you when in bed. Its your duty to make your partner aware of what kind of sexual pleasure you want and in what manner. With this, both of you will enjoy the act of love-making without any desires unfulfilled.

And please, please, never make your man feel that he is or was wrong somewhere while having sex with you. As this will shatter his self-confidence thereby making the things worse for both of you. If you felt that he was lacking something or gone wrong somewhere, then have a chat just after sex. Ask him in a different way if you were wrong somewhere in making him happy or was lacking something, then he will tell you that. And in return, he will also ask you the same thing, and then you tell him what you felt about his performance in bed.

This way, you will understand each other better.

About the G-Spot Orgasm…

Women can orgasm several different ways, via clitoral, vaginal, and of course the G-Spot, the latter can give her a massively satisfying orgasm if stimulated correctly.
Here we will look at how to find it and give your partner immense pleasure once you do!

Where is the G Spot?

The G-Spot is the area to target for maximum sexual arousal.
You will be able to help give added pleasure and a mind blowing climax to your partner if you can locate and stimulate it.

The G-Spot is essentially a bean shaped area of nerve tissue, located about halfway between the back of the pubic bone and the top of a woman’s cervix.

The size and location of the G-Spot will vary between women, but it usually lies about 1.5 to 3 inside the vagina.

This area inside the vagina has a different texture; it’s ridged, not smooth like the rest of the vagina, and when aroused has a spongy feel.

The G-Spot is not easily located. Sometimes even women have a hard time finding it and some don’t even believe it exists, but it does.

All you need to do is to locate it and arouse it and with a little trial and error between you and your partner you can.

Locating the G Spot

To explore and find the G spot, have your partner lie down, knees bent and feet flat on the floor or bed, with a pillow under her buttocks for comfort.

Insert your fingers into her vagina towards her navel. This will be between 1.5 to 3 inches inside the vagina to find the exact spot.

Press with the fingers against the front wall of the vagina. As it’s surrounded by tissue and deep in the vaginal wall, you will need to apply a little pressure. When you finally hit the right spot, it will swell the same way a penis does.

Slide your fingers from side to side. Have your partner tell you when you hit the right place and you she will know, as you will see the reaction when you hit it!

G Spot Technique

When you have found it move your fingers in even circles all around the inside of the vagina walls.

It generally feels best for her if you keep consistent, firm pressure along the entire length of the vaginal walls and use a steady rotational rhythm.

Stop rotating your fingers and rest your fingertips on the ridged area of the G Spot. Then move the fingers in and out and do rotational movements to keep hitting the spot.

Finding a rhythm is what you are looking for here; keep moving the fingers in and out and around constantly hitting the G Spot.

Stimulating the G Spot to the level where it will ejaculate requires three components:

1.Time: Needs to be taken to work your partner up

2.Gentle attention: Listen to your partner and find out what gives her pleasure.

3.Tapping: Keep constantly tapping the G-spot while you are moving your fingers.

Penis stimulation

Penises curve and the ones that curve upwards are most likely to hit the G territory. However if your penis curves to the left or the right, all is not lost. There are options!

If your penis curves to the left, right or to the south, you can position yourself in such a way that your penis hits the spot i.e., you need to be in a position where your penis points north.

For example, if your penis curves to the side. You lie horizontally, she lies vertically and you gain the same impact and will be able to hit her G Spot.

If your penis curves downwards, place her on top of you but facing the other way, you will see her buttocks and then move to hit the G spot.

Finally…

The G Spot is there in women all you have to do is find it and stimulate it to give your partner huge pleasure.

There is a lot of mystique related to the spot but to find the G spot and give your partner pleasure is really all about communication.

She will be able to guide you, all you need to do is follow her instructions have patience and find out what’s right for her.

If you do, you will add another dimension to your relationship and your partner will be very grateful for your effort!