Sex - Here Are 5 Bad Things That Happen When You Fail To Give Your Woman Orgasms In The Bedroom

Women need ORGASMS but most men struggle to sexually satisfy their women. Read this article and find out about the bad things that can happen if you fail to give your woman orgasms and sexual satisfaction in the bedroom...

1. Your Woman Starts To Lose Interest In Sex:

When a woman is not sexually fulfilled and her man is not giving her orgasms in the bedroom, the first thing that usually happens is that she starts to lose interest in having sex.

Makes sense, right?

Women are no different -- they need to have orgasms in order to fully enjoy sex.

2. Your Woman Starts To Think About Other Men:

If you repeatedly fail to give your woman orgasms during sex, your woman may definitely start to think about other men -- men who she thinks could give her more SEXUAL PLEASURE than you can.

Once your woman starts to think about having sex with other men, in an effort to get the sexual satisfaction that she desires -- you are in trouble.

3. Your Woman Cheats On You:

50% of women admit to cheating on their men at least once. People only cheat when they are not happy and fulfilled in their relationship for one reason or another.

A huge reason why many women cheat is because they have a burning desire and serious need to have GREAT SEX, complete with mind-blowing orgasms.

If you don't give your woman that type of sexual pleasure -- she may well look elsewhere which is not good.

4. Your Woman Leaves You For Another Man:

Relationships fall apart all the time. Women leave men and men leave women.

Many women leave men at least in part because their sex-life was lousy and they found a new and more exciting sexual partner.

5. Your Sexual Confidence Decreases:

If you repeatedly fail to give your woman orgasms during sex, your sexual confidence will decrease and that's a very bad thing because it will lower your woman's attraction to you and make it even harder for her to take you seriously in the bedroom.

And if your woman doesn't take you seriously and respect you -- you'll really struggle to give her an orgasm. Period.

The bottom line is that most men are lousy lovers and most women are sexually unfulfilled to varying degrees.

If you want to have a happy and fulfilling sexual relationship with your woman -- you must give her vaginal orgasms. When you give her VAGINAL ORGASMS, she'll see you as the best she's ever had. Guaranteed.

THE ART OF KISSING !!!

One of the best ways to prolong foreplay is to indulge in the many ways you and your partner can kiss each other. Here are a few tips for you.

1) The Bent Kiss is the type of kiss that’s meant for ‘deep tongue penetration’. It requires one partner to be taller or be at an elevated height than the other. For couples with differing heights, no problem but for couples of equal heights, try kissing while one of you is sitting on the table or sink. The objective is to have one bending over the other for maximum tongue playing.

2) The Upper Lip Kiss is when you kiss the upper lip of your partner, making your partner focus on your lower lip. This type of kiss allows for a different type of sensation like a little sucking of the lips.

3) The Upside-Down Kiss is literally kissing each other while upside-down. Don’t worry; you don’t need any form of acrobatics here. For example, initiate foreplay while your partner is watching TV. Touch his/her shoulders from behind the couch, give him/her a hug, bend over his/her head and start the kiss!

I just gave you two pointers here. Firstly, let your partner know you’re behind him/her! Think about it. How would you react if there was this big head appearing in your line of vision all of a sudden! Secondly, proceed gently, the ‘hug’ part lets your partner know you’re in a ‘tender, loving place’ and because he/she knows this, the kiss you give will be more welcome.

Also, do time your upside-down kiss well! There’s no point in initiating foreplay during the championship or premier league when your man is watching either Chelsea or Arsenal match. You are setting yourself up badly and you know it! Men, if you know she’s REALLY into Oprah, watching home movie, now is not the time for you to initiate this either.

4) Kiss and Lick (a.k.a. tongue bathing) is when you ensure that you kiss and lick your partner in ‘equal portions’. So many of us do not lick enough! So when you feel that your partner wants to immediately move on to lovemaking, delay it by engaging in some licking. Be sure to make the change subtle and to alternate between kissing and licking.

5) The Awakening Kiss is the kiss you want to do if you want to initiate foreplay in the morning or whenever your partner is sleeping. Personally, I call it the “Sleeping Kiss” because basically you start kissing your partner gently while he/she is still asleep. Don’t make the kiss too wet or too aggressive. Remember, you want your partner to awaken to ‘gentle, sensual pleasures’ and not to a rough smooching.

6) Chocolate Kisses is as simple as it sounds, pop a piece of chocolate in your mouth, melt it a bit and when it’s soft… go for the kiss! You can do some variations of this depending on what you and your partner love to eat. For example, butter mint is good for most people. Just be sure it’s something your partner loves to eat as well!

There you go. Add these kiss variations into your foreplay repertoire and your partner will surely be surprised, delighted and excited by all these NEW things that are going on in your relationship.

Ladies, Celebrate Your Breasts

Whether you think that your breasts are too small, too big etc, you will agree with me that one thing you wouldn’t want to do is to part with your pairs. Besides giving your babies essential nutrients and vitamins for long healthy lives, your breasts do a lot to up the oh-factor during those lengthy, steamy baby-making sessions.

I have come up with a few ways to love your favorites set of twins more …

One More Reason Why Ladies Have More Fun…
A 2006 study reported that 82% of women reported that manipulation of their nipples and breasts enhanced sexual arousal. Large nipples have more nerve endings. And most women have bigger pointers than their dudes… thus higher stimulation. Large nipples tend to be more sensitive than small ones.
If the pressure is causing you the woman more pain than pleasure, tell your man to ease up on the sucking and switch it up with some slow, strong tongue action.

They’ve Got Some Real Growth Potential…
Experts say that a woman boobs can grow up to 25 percent bigger when they are aroused. So if you are looking for a little breast enhancement during your next love making session to suit your man’s desire shape and size, you can squeeze those boobs of yours with your upper arm or you direct or tell your man on how to do it for you; they’ll (your breast) follow your leads.

You Can Give Them Some textural Seduction…
The nerve endings in your breasts will respond positive to more than just a firm squeeze from your man’s hand. Try rubbing different textures, like silk, lace or smooth body cream across your breast for new sensation.

You Can Take Them To The Top…
The skin just above the areola is actually the most sensitive area on the breast, with the areola coming in second and the nipple third. If you want chills down your spine, have your man gently trace line that separates the darker and lighter area’s of your breasts with a cube of ice and then retrace his steps with his warm tongue.


Size Matters…
How big your breasts are can determine how they like to be touched. Smaller boobs have a higher concentration of nerve endings that makes them more sensitive to heavy pressure. Bigger boobs are said to be less sensitive because they have extra fatty tissue and their nerves are slightly stretched that means they can take a little extra-firm squeeze along with some light pinching and nibbling.

Why Some Men Can't Please Women Sexually and How to Make A Woman Scream With Desire

Women love sex and will worship men who know how to be masters at pleasing them. There's nothing more awful than a lousy lover. Men who don't have a clue how to please a woman. What's even worse are men who don't know how to turn a woman on to the point where every muscle in her body wants him like nothing else matters.

The sad thing is the way men are taught about sex. Most men learn about sex from magazines or watching videos when they were teenagers, not how to be great lovers. Or maybe you are a man who learned from your fellow boys while you were in the locker room during secondary school days.

The reason why so many men fail to please their women is because they don't know how. You don't want to be left out in the dark any longer, do you? Trust me, if you want your woman to talk to her girlfriends about how awesome you are, you have to learn to step up your game. Don't think you already know everything, there is so much to learn about women and how their bodies work.

The vast majority of men don't know anything about stamina or ejaculation control. Let me tell you how to really please your woman:
You have to learn how to prolong her pleasure by knowing how to control your body. She wants to beg you over and over again to kiss her until she starts acting like a wild stallion. If you don't know how to control your semen, you will never be the kind of lover she desires and she will secretly crave a man who .....

A man who wants to master the art of seducing and pleasing his woman will learn about every part of a woman's vagina including her g-spot, her clitoris and the hundreds of nerve endings there. He'll also learn about the secret tunnels in her body. Her curves and her love spots. You can give her multiple orgasms with just a touch of your finger, did you know that?

Since you're a man, you may not want to come right out and have to ask her for directions on how to really please her. She's expecting you to be man enough to know what to do so she doesn't have to worry about "over thinking" when you're being intimate.

She as well as many women loves sex and want you to bring out her raw desire. I'm telling you that she wants to go to the mountaintops because I talk with few of my female friends most of the time and this is what they want. They love men who can take them for the ride of their lives and give them the kind of loving that they want to keep coming back for.

Touch to Relax, Touch to Electrify

Different types of touch bring different responses, from relaxing you enough to be available for sex, to eliciting sexual arousal.

In this stressed-out culture, relaxation is an important precursor to lovemaking, and most lovers need some way to relax in order to be most sexually responsive, as opposed to just using quick sex as a stress release. One way to relax is through massage. You and your lover can take turns massaging each other.

Massage is usually most relaxing when the muscles are squeezed and kneaded with a medium to firm touch, but feed back from the recipient should be the guide.

Once a person is relaxed, the skin can be awakened and erotic energy can be aroused and moved throughout the body with feather-light touch. The wispy touch of your fingertips, or tongue, grazing gently over the skin can be electric and awakens nerve endings in a way that firmer touch doesn't.

When erotically touching your woman, start with the extremities (ideally her hands and feet) whenever possible, gradually moving energy toward her core. Don't touch her nipples until you have stroked her shoulders, the sides of her torso and/or circled her breasts. Her energy awakens and moves more slowly than most men, gradually igniting her sexual passion as it flows toward her genitals like water to the lowest spot. Be sure to also caress her belly and thighs and circle her genitals before directly stimulating them.

Most men, on the other hand, benefit from light erotic touch that helps bring sexual energy out of his penis and spreads it to the rest of his body. This helps him experience his sexuality throughout his body, can enable him to last longer during intercourse, and enhances his potential to have multiple orgasms before ejaculation. So, lightly stroke him from the genitals outward, up his chest, around his buttocks, down his thighs, and out to his head, hands and feet.

However, if a man is having difficulty getting or maintaining an erection, the opposite is in order. Move the energy toward the penis by starting with the extremities and moving inward. Also, rather than requiring the blood to fight gravity while he lies on his back, a man who needs help getting an erection might want to kneel, stand or lie over his partner in a way that allows the blood to flow down into his penis while his partner strokes his body with electrifying feather-light touch.

Irrespective of your age, you can be a youth at heart. Make yourself young at heart and have a wonderful time with your partner.

After Sex Tips !

It was a GREAT round of lovemaking! You probably want to doze off now but what if she doesn’t? I won’t delve into the details of WHY men seem to shut down after sex while women seem to want to do the opposite. Men and women are just different. Period. However, when it comes to afterglow there can be a sort of middle ground where everybody's is happy.

FIVE Things to Do After Sex

Go Ahead And Cuddle: Men listen, most women don’t want to start and have a whole conversation running after sex. They get tired too. However, simply turning away from them and sleeping translates to many negative things in their mind such as “hmmm, feels like they just get used for sex”. You can easily prevent this by simply hugging your woman after lovemaking. Just put one leg over her legs and one arm over her and snuggle up close. That’s it!
Side Note: I read about a couple that the man will always get out of bed and didn’t return after a few minutes. Well guess what, it turned out he was soooo warm after making love that he was sweating buckets and didn’t want to gross out his partner in bed.
Moral lesson: if you need to step out of bed after sex for whatever reason simply communicate this with your partner!

Make The Heat Burn A Little Longer: Most men think that the type of conversation women want after sex is all about “relationships”. Not true at all. Women simply want to connect further after an orgasm and really the topic of what’s being talked about is not extremely important.
As such – and to motivate you to talk after sex – why not steer the conversation into something you want to talk about. Sex positions, perhaps?
For instance, when you embrace her, whisper if she thinks she would like to try something new next time. You’re talking about something YOU like and the fact that you’re talking is what SHE likes.
If you’re more an ‘action speaks louder than words’ type of man then don’t speak and just physically communicate with her by, say, drawing lazy circles around her breast or gently kissing her neck, or simply holding hands.

Well, If You Must Shower… some men (and women too!) feel the need to shower after making love. This is definitely the case if you just had morning sex and need to dash off somewhere. Sometimes though, people want to take a shower because they got all hot and sweaty! This time, instead of taking a quick shower alone, pull your partner with you! It’s great bonding time and who knows what all that touching, soaping, and rubbing can lead to next?

Drink Up: All that lovemaking has probably made you both thirsty. Well, go ahead and quench the thirst with some COLD water. After taking a sip, be sure to lean down and put one of her nipples in your mouth! It’s sexy, good for laugh and makes her feel you’re still yearning for her.
Another good idea is to grab a glass of wine too and share it. You can then cuddle up in bed till you both doze off.

Play Some ‘Sleep’ Music: This is a tip from one of my friends who are a couple. They do both tend to be worn out and sleepy after making love. Taking a shower doesn’t fit, turning on the TV is a no-no, and neither wanted to talk about anything! The solution they found was this, they would turn on some really soothing ‘sleep music’. It relaxes them both as they snuggle up a bit after sex. And then they slowly draw away from each other (too warm to stay close!) and drift blissfully to sleep. Try it!