Different types of touch bring different responses, from relaxing you enough to be available for sex, to eliciting sexual arousal.
In this stressed-out culture, relaxation is an important precursor to lovemaking, and most lovers need some way to relax in order to be most sexually responsive, as opposed to just using quick sex as a stress release. One way to relax is through massage. You and your lover can take turns massaging each other.
Massage is usually most relaxing when the muscles are squeezed and kneaded with a medium to firm touch, but feed back from the recipient should be the guide.
Once a person is relaxed, the skin can be awakened and erotic energy can be aroused and moved throughout the body with feather-light touch. The wispy touch of your fingertips, or tongue, grazing gently over the skin can be electric and awakens nerve endings in a way that firmer touch doesn't.
When erotically touching your woman, start with the extremities (ideally her hands and feet) whenever possible, gradually moving energy toward her core. Don't touch her nipples until you have stroked her shoulders, the sides of her torso and/or circled her breasts. Her energy awakens and moves more slowly than most men, gradually igniting her sexual passion as it flows toward her genitals like water to the lowest spot. Be sure to also caress her belly and thighs and circle her genitals before directly stimulating them.
Most men, on the other hand, benefit from light erotic touch that helps bring sexual energy out of his penis and spreads it to the rest of his body. This helps him experience his sexuality throughout his body, can enable him to last longer during intercourse, and enhances his potential to have multiple orgasms before ejaculation. So, lightly stroke him from the genitals outward, up his chest, around his buttocks, down his thighs, and out to his head, hands and feet.
However, if a man is having difficulty getting or maintaining an erection, the opposite is in order. Move the energy toward the penis by starting with the extremities and moving inward. Also, rather than requiring the blood to fight gravity while he lies on his back, a man who needs help getting an erection might want to kneel, stand or lie over his partner in a way that allows the blood to flow down into his penis while his partner strokes his body with electrifying feather-light touch.
Irrespective of your age, you can be a youth at heart. Make yourself young at heart and have a wonderful time with your partner.
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