If you take the time to ask, a lot of people are going to tell you there is no way to choose whether to conceive a boy or a girl. They're going to tell you it is up to mother nature and they will scoff at those they think it is possible to determine if it is going to be a boy or a girl. And of those that think it is possible, you will notice that there are so many opinions on how to do it. If you want to know more about how to get pregnant with a boy or a girl there is information here that might be helpful.
And as long as we're going to discuss gender we might as well discuss genetics. Most know that a baby gets 50 percent of their genetics from their mother and the other 50 percent from their father. What most do not know, or forgot, is that the woman carries the XX genes and the father carries the XY genes. What this means as it relates to the gender of a newborn baby, is that the mother provides the X and the father provides either the X or the Y and that the sperm determines gender.
If you are hoping against all hope for a little boy and explore the recommendations, you'll come to learn there are a number of suggestions that might help. Most agree the male should be in the dominant sexual position and that he should initiate the contact. Intercourse should occur approximately twelve hours prior to ovulation. The point is to have the Y sperm reach the egg before the X sperm.
If you are hoping for a baby girl you will hear the same types of concerns. The very same variables that control the birth of a male also help to encourage the birth of a female, only the positions and conditions are altered.
As you begin to become more familiar with all the things that could potentially help to control gender you will find that some programs make use of a sub set of methods, others an entirely different sub set of methods, and still others suggest a certain combination to include any or all of the common practices for a given gender. Still, none of these can make any guarantees beyond offering to increase the potential for the gender of choice.
And it goes without saying that a conversation with your doctors would be a good place to start, even if you are not concerned with gender. Of course, with the unique practices that people may implement during their pregnancy in an effort to determine gender, this conversation with your doctor becomes even more important. Diet, supplements and other variables may not be right for certain people, so check it out and get clearance before you decide.
So whether you are planning a family or a new addition, if gender is of concern talk with your doctor, explore your options, and ask those you know what, if anything, they did as a way to have either a boy or a girl. Take your time and make the right choice and enjoy your newborn!
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Friday, September 24, 2010
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
What Women REALLY Want In Bed ...
Hello Friends,
Are you also someone who does not ever really feel confident that he knows exactly WHAT it is that a woman really want from her man in bed?
If you answered "yes" to any of these questions, then I've got two things to tell you:
One, you are NOT alone,
and Two, YOU are the Man who CAN and WILL be able to make a woman feel amazing and incredible in bed!
So let me give you some of the KEY and TOP tips that will IMMEDIATELY make you create amazing passion and desire in your woman in bed.
You should know that sex and foreplay start right inside a woman's mind.
So let's say you've done it all right. You've started sex and foreplay by seducing her mind and you have her all turned on.
I know you may be thinking, "OK, John, that's GREAT... so what EXACTLY DO we do?"
Good question.
How do you encourage this woman – who is basically very submissive in bed due to the fact that she does not have any experience or what she has is with Mr. "Pump and Dump?"
First a little insight into this woman's mindset...
The reason why she is submissive, much of the time, is that she has never explored her own sexuality.
A lot of women that have had "pump and dumpers" don't know what they want sexually, and they are usually women who have never masturbated. They don't know what feels good and what doesn't.
So how DO you encourage this woman to open up to her own sexuality?
Here are some of the TOP TECHNIQUES you can and should use to create maximum desire for you in bed:
DESIRE TIP #1
=============
First of all, this woman may or may not have ever had an orgasm before.
Tip: I would assume that she never has. She thinks she might be having an orgasm – it might be a momentary wave – but she is not having a full-blown orgasm.
If you ask her if she's had an orgasm, and she says, "I think so" – then you have your answer. There is no "I think so" when it comes down to orgasms. Either you've had one or you haven't!
If a woman will tell you that she thinks she had an orgasm, it means that she has probably only experienced a little wave of pleasure and not a full orgasmic experience.
DESIRE TIP #2
=============
So let's assume that she's never had an orgasm. You've got to become the teacher in this relationship.
She is probably the type of woman who just expects you to do whatever you want to do, and she'll just lie there submissively.
So YOU need to show her slowly how amazing sex is.
You would take some extra time and give her a full body massage.
You would spend extra time kissing her and just touching her, everywhere except in her breast and her groin area.
You would take extra time when you go down on her and also touch all parts of her body.
You would also slip one finger inside her in order to give her a different experience.
You wouldn't ask her if she is coming.
You would just continually do all the things that you know will bring pleasure to your woman, and you would ask her,
“How does that feel for you? Are you enjoying this? How do you like the pressure? I want to please you and I want to make you feel amazing.”
Don't say, “I want to give you an orgasm.” Don't tell her you want her to scream and yell.
Just say, “I want to make you feel wonderful. Okay?”
DESIRE TIP #3
=============
Then take your time. Allow her to open up and allow her to see sex in an entirely different light.
Don't expect the magical orgasm right away. Don't expect her to open up immediately.
Your only job is to show her – through a soothing, relaxing, attentive sexual session – just how great sex can be.
DESIRE TIP #4
=============
Another way to do it, too, is when you're having sex with her, is to do the opposite of what the "pump and dumpers" does.
Hold her really close to you so she can feel the tightness and feel the sensuality of sex, and then go in very slowly as you pull her close to you. That way your pubic bone is actually massaging her clit at the same time.
By doing that and staying deep inside her, you're going to give her feelings that she has not had before and you're going to get her to open up. You may actually get her to start having a clitoral orgasm that way, in time.
You are also going to show her a different side of sex, going to show her the sensuality of sex so that she can feel protected, warm, and nurtured during the experience.
You've got to be tender and warm, and you've got to put absolutely no pressure on her at all.
By following these simple steps and tips, you're going to make her feel really comfortable, and you're going to be able to get her to explore herself even more.
She'll surrender herself to you, in time, but you need to be very
patient.
Uzodinma (M.O.G)
Are you also someone who does not ever really feel confident that he knows exactly WHAT it is that a woman really want from her man in bed?
If you answered "yes" to any of these questions, then I've got two things to tell you:
One, you are NOT alone,
and Two, YOU are the Man who CAN and WILL be able to make a woman feel amazing and incredible in bed!
So let me give you some of the KEY and TOP tips that will IMMEDIATELY make you create amazing passion and desire in your woman in bed.
You should know that sex and foreplay start right inside a woman's mind.
So let's say you've done it all right. You've started sex and foreplay by seducing her mind and you have her all turned on.
I know you may be thinking, "OK, John, that's GREAT... so what EXACTLY DO we do?"
Good question.
How do you encourage this woman – who is basically very submissive in bed due to the fact that she does not have any experience or what she has is with Mr. "Pump and Dump?"
First a little insight into this woman's mindset...
The reason why she is submissive, much of the time, is that she has never explored her own sexuality.
A lot of women that have had "pump and dumpers" don't know what they want sexually, and they are usually women who have never masturbated. They don't know what feels good and what doesn't.
So how DO you encourage this woman to open up to her own sexuality?
Here are some of the TOP TECHNIQUES you can and should use to create maximum desire for you in bed:
DESIRE TIP #1
=============
First of all, this woman may or may not have ever had an orgasm before.
Tip: I would assume that she never has. She thinks she might be having an orgasm – it might be a momentary wave – but she is not having a full-blown orgasm.
If you ask her if she's had an orgasm, and she says, "I think so" – then you have your answer. There is no "I think so" when it comes down to orgasms. Either you've had one or you haven't!
If a woman will tell you that she thinks she had an orgasm, it means that she has probably only experienced a little wave of pleasure and not a full orgasmic experience.
DESIRE TIP #2
=============
So let's assume that she's never had an orgasm. You've got to become the teacher in this relationship.
She is probably the type of woman who just expects you to do whatever you want to do, and she'll just lie there submissively.
So YOU need to show her slowly how amazing sex is.
You would take some extra time and give her a full body massage.
You would spend extra time kissing her and just touching her, everywhere except in her breast and her groin area.
You would take extra time when you go down on her and also touch all parts of her body.
You would also slip one finger inside her in order to give her a different experience.
You wouldn't ask her if she is coming.
You would just continually do all the things that you know will bring pleasure to your woman, and you would ask her,
“How does that feel for you? Are you enjoying this? How do you like the pressure? I want to please you and I want to make you feel amazing.”
Don't say, “I want to give you an orgasm.” Don't tell her you want her to scream and yell.
Just say, “I want to make you feel wonderful. Okay?”
DESIRE TIP #3
=============
Then take your time. Allow her to open up and allow her to see sex in an entirely different light.
Don't expect the magical orgasm right away. Don't expect her to open up immediately.
Your only job is to show her – through a soothing, relaxing, attentive sexual session – just how great sex can be.
DESIRE TIP #4
=============
Another way to do it, too, is when you're having sex with her, is to do the opposite of what the "pump and dumpers" does.
Hold her really close to you so she can feel the tightness and feel the sensuality of sex, and then go in very slowly as you pull her close to you. That way your pubic bone is actually massaging her clit at the same time.
By doing that and staying deep inside her, you're going to give her feelings that she has not had before and you're going to get her to open up. You may actually get her to start having a clitoral orgasm that way, in time.
You are also going to show her a different side of sex, going to show her the sensuality of sex so that she can feel protected, warm, and nurtured during the experience.
You've got to be tender and warm, and you've got to put absolutely no pressure on her at all.
By following these simple steps and tips, you're going to make her feel really comfortable, and you're going to be able to get her to explore herself even more.
She'll surrender herself to you, in time, but you need to be very
patient.
Uzodinma (M.O.G)
Thursday, September 9, 2010
How to give women orgasms
Hello Friends,
I'm going to start things off here by telling you
what you really DON'T want to hear...
And that's that there is NOT a single technique
that will ensure your woman's satisfaction.
Yes, it's true.
Techniques and thrusts are important but you'll get
much further by building a mood that eventually
sends her over the edge.
It's a bit difficult for us men to grasp, since a
warm vagina, or even a fist full of hand lotion,
is all it really takes to get where you need to be.
Just know that all of the kissing, touching,
licking, and caressing are vital parts for an
orgasm, not just stuff you do until you cum, if not
MORE important than the act of love making itself.
Over the following newsletter lesson's you'll learn
things to do with all aspects of lovemaking and
how to give your lady the best experience possible.
For now, perhaps a better understanding of the phases
a woman goes through to reach orgasm is in order.
PHASE I: THE BEGINNING
This is the part when she just decided she wants to
have sex. Her breathing is slightly heavier than
normal, and her pulse has quickened. Some serious
making out just may be in order at this point.
Let your hands wander all over her body. Run your
fingers through her hair, stroke her back, and even
get in a bit of nipple play. If your hands head
south of the border, avoid direct contact with her
clit. Use slow, gentle strokes. Rubbing your palm
slowly and deeply over her vaginal lips is a great
way to give her a hint of what's to come without
irritating her lady bits.
PHASE II: THE BUILD UP
Now things are really getting heated up. Her
breathing has turned into almost a pant, and she's
probably let out some audible moans. In this phase,
you can make more direct contact with the clitoris,
but don't just hang out there. Keep that indirect
contact going, but brush the head of the clit every
once in a while. Rub the sides along the shaft, and
then pinch the head. You can also vary strokes and
speeds at this point. You may want to rub the head
of the clit in a circular motion at a high
frequency, and then slowly rub the shaft up and
down. However you want to do it, just play!
PHASE III: THE BIG FINISH
Phase III is typically signaled by her screaming,
"Faster! Faster!" Now is not the time to mess
around. Get in there, and get the job done! Zero in
on that one spot, and rub it like you mean it! Use
quick, circular motions right on the head of the
clitoris until you hear her scream in ecstasy.
Peace,
John Uzodinma
I'm going to start things off here by telling you
what you really DON'T want to hear...
And that's that there is NOT a single technique
that will ensure your woman's satisfaction.
Yes, it's true.
Techniques and thrusts are important but you'll get
much further by building a mood that eventually
sends her over the edge.
It's a bit difficult for us men to grasp, since a
warm vagina, or even a fist full of hand lotion,
is all it really takes to get where you need to be.
Just know that all of the kissing, touching,
licking, and caressing are vital parts for an
orgasm, not just stuff you do until you cum, if not
MORE important than the act of love making itself.
Over the following newsletter lesson's you'll learn
things to do with all aspects of lovemaking and
how to give your lady the best experience possible.
For now, perhaps a better understanding of the phases
a woman goes through to reach orgasm is in order.
PHASE I: THE BEGINNING
This is the part when she just decided she wants to
have sex. Her breathing is slightly heavier than
normal, and her pulse has quickened. Some serious
making out just may be in order at this point.
Let your hands wander all over her body. Run your
fingers through her hair, stroke her back, and even
get in a bit of nipple play. If your hands head
south of the border, avoid direct contact with her
clit. Use slow, gentle strokes. Rubbing your palm
slowly and deeply over her vaginal lips is a great
way to give her a hint of what's to come without
irritating her lady bits.
PHASE II: THE BUILD UP
Now things are really getting heated up. Her
breathing has turned into almost a pant, and she's
probably let out some audible moans. In this phase,
you can make more direct contact with the clitoris,
but don't just hang out there. Keep that indirect
contact going, but brush the head of the clit every
once in a while. Rub the sides along the shaft, and
then pinch the head. You can also vary strokes and
speeds at this point. You may want to rub the head
of the clit in a circular motion at a high
frequency, and then slowly rub the shaft up and
down. However you want to do it, just play!
PHASE III: THE BIG FINISH
Phase III is typically signaled by her screaming,
"Faster! Faster!" Now is not the time to mess
around. Get in there, and get the job done! Zero in
on that one spot, and rub it like you mean it! Use
quick, circular motions right on the head of the
clitoris until you hear her scream in ecstasy.
Peace,
John Uzodinma
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