First of all, this is about going just a bit out of your bedroom comfort zone. So, how do you go about being a little wilder in bed? Let us count the ways.
Pull Her To You: One of the mildest things you can do that will have a really thrilling effect on her is if you pull her – hard – towards you. It shows you want to be in command. It shows you can be ...... And it conveys the message that she is just there to pleasure you. I know that’s a lot of messages for a slightly rough act but don’t worry, she’ll think of it that way.
Consume Her: After some heavy (and I mean really heavy!) foreplay, go down and perform with your hands. However, don’t just do this for a few seconds and move on. Women hate that because it gives them the message that you just had to do it because it’s part of the ‘routine’ (sort of like having to pass by the bakery because it’s on the way home). No; this time, go down there with one single purpose: make her come.
This may shock your partner especially if you haven’t paid too much attention there before. In fact, once she feels really hot she may even be the one to try and pull you off (she’s not used to you making her come via that, you see). Well, whatever she does, stay there. You have a mission remember? Now don’t budge until you’ve achieved it!
Try Something Completely Different: When it comes to positions, try something completely out of the ‘routine’. Don’t do something too wild that you scare her though. Instead, just apply a simple variation to what you guys normally do. For example, instead of woman-on-top facing you, try reverse cow girl (woman-on-top but facing your feet). Here’s another hot one: reverse cow girl being milked, which is woman-on-top, facing your feet, but you have one leg bent. So as she straddles your member (her body slightly turned sideways), your bent leg is grazing her clitoris.
As for the missionary position, you can apply a lot of variety on that one too. Put a pillow under her bottom and then hold her legs (by the ankles) straight up in front of you as you enter her. Keeping her legs together as your move makes for a tighter fit.
Don’t Be Afraid To Make A Sound: Most men do not make a sound when they come. I guess they think it’s unmanly. However, you don’t need to emit a high-pitched scream to show her just how hard and magnificent your climax is. You can just groan a bit louder and harder. Once your woman hears just how much pleasure you’re getting from coming, you can bet she’ll be doing her darn best to really goad you on!
Start By Making Small Changes: You won’t believe how hotter your sexual relationship will be by just showing a wilder side to you.
Enjoy yourselves this weekend.
Uzodinma M.O.G
