Monday, February 14, 2011

Female Ejaculation


Watching your woman experience a squirting orgasm is a big turn on for many men. A man that knows how to get his woman to experience female ejaculation is a man that understands what his woman really desires. The problem is most men do not know and as such have never been taught how to perform this art of a woman.

Forget about what might be said that women do not ejaculate. This is a lie because almost every woman is capable of having a squirting orgasm and that includes your woman. When you learn to master this technique you will be able to do what 99% of other men can't...giving their woman the best sexual experience she's ever had.

Using your fingers is the easiest way to get your woman to have a squirting orgasm.

"This Is What You Need To Do"

Communication with your partner is very important in this action.

Have your woman lie down on her back and open up her legs. The first reaction a man will have is to stick their finger inside of her vagina and rapidly slide it back and forth. Women are different than men because it takes women longer time to get aroused. A man gets excited at the slightest time.

You'll want to take your finger and glide it around the outside of her vagina. Move up to her tummy and back down around her vagina. You'll want to do this for a couple of minutes to build up her anticipation. Once you get her anticipation up this is when the fun starts.

Take your finger and slowly insert in her vagina. Spend a couple of minutes using your finger to rub her vagina walls in a circular motion. Change directions every now and then. You need to be gentle when doing this so don't put too much pressure on her vagina wall when performing this step.

Now with your palm facing in the upward position insert your finger inside about 3 inches which should be just a little past your middle knuckle. By this point she should be extremely wet.

Now take your finger and make a little female lubricant lotion. Your finger tip should be on her G spot. You'll know when you feel her G spot because it will have a rough and bumpy texture. Now begin stimulating this spot by using the female lubricant lotion with your finger.

When she is getting close to her orgasm you'll feel her G spot begin to swell. This is where communication becomes important. Have her tell you how she's feeling and to be open about it. As her G spot begins to swell and she's getting close to her orgasm put slight pressure on her G spot with your finger.

She'll probably have a feeling like she needs to pee which is normal when a woman is about to squirt. Now to put yourself at ease I want you to know that this is not pee, it is her ejaculate. When she is ready to orgasm tell her to push it out. At this point you'll want to remove the slight pressure you have on her G spot and tell her in an excited voice you want her to squirt her juices in your hand!

Some women can squirt a whole bunch their first time while other women just have a little bit of ejaculation come out. Regardless of how much she squirts the feeling is just the same. You have just given your woman the most powerful and explosive orgasm she's ever had in her life.

…keep your sexual life burning.

UZODINMA (M.O.G)
http://www.couplesaffairforum.blogspot.com

Quick Sex Positions She Won't Forget


There are some sex positions that are more arousing then others for women. While the trusty missionary position is a good way to show affection and keep eye contact, there are many other positions that she will feel just as close to you and get some added arousal as well.

1) The Mare's Position:
Even if your woman doesn't necessarily like to be on top, she may enjoy this position. With this position you can either be sitting back on your hands or lying down with your legs straight out in front of you, while she sits down facing away from you. If you stay sitting up you can kiss the back or her neck or shoulders while she does a slow movement up and down. Also, if she contracts her vaginal walls while moving up and down, then both of you will experience a unique feeling that is not often felt while having sex.

2) Congress of a Cow:
If your woman can touch her hands to the floor while bent over standing, then she is going to love this position. This is a variation of a popular rear entry position. Have her support herself with her hands and her feet while you 'mount her like a bull'. Hold on to her waist during this position to offer a little more support to her. You will be able to penetrate her deeply with this position.

3) The Opened Position:
This is a variation of missionary that will give her great stimulation due to her clitoris being fully exposed to the friction of intercourse. Have her lay on her back and raise her body up. She can support herself on her shoulders and feet. You should be on top of her, but try not to put too much pressure on her as she is trying to hold herself up.

4) The Pressed Position:
This position shortens her vagina, so it is good for men with shorter penises or for men who just really want her to feel it. You have to be careful not to thrust to hard with this position though as you can hurt her and possibly turn her off forever from it! Have her lay on her back and bend her legs up to her chest. Her feet will rest on your chest. You should be on your knees and very close to her in this position.

5) The Half Pressed Position:
If she finds that it is hard for her to keep both of her legs bent in the pressed position, then you can vary it by only having her bend one leg to her chest and allow her to stretch her other leg straight out over one of your legs.

UZODINMA (M.O.G)

3 Tips You Can Use Tonight To Last Long In Bed


If you need to last long in bed tonight, then these are the TOP 3 tips to use:

1. Creams: While this isn't the most ideal approach, it is an approach that can work immediately, that's why it is part of the top 3 tips to get rid of premature ejaculation tonight. There are creams available, usually at the same place you buy condoms (in the same section) that when applied to the erect penis, they will provide a numbing effect. This way you won't feel as much during penetration and hence you won't get over excited too quickly, which usually leads to not pleasing your partner sexually. These can work when used the right way, but obviously you lose out on some sexual enjoyment as you don't feel as much as you normally would. But you do last long in bed!

2. Masturbation Before Hand: This actually works like a charm. About an hour or so before sex, if you masturbate, then when actual sex is to be had, you will end up lasting MUCH longer than ever before. Your body will have already depleted that first quick ejaculation, and as everyone knows, the second ejaculation always takes much longer to achieve and you really have to work hard at it. In other words you will last much longer the second time around. Give this a try.

3. Gently Touching The Testicles During Sex: This is a little known trick but it can be just what you need to last long in bed. Many men have found that by just touching, or gently flicking the tip of your finger to your testicles during sex, provides enough of a physical and mental diversion to get rid of premature ejaculation. Practice this first by masturbating to experience how this can work safely and effectively.

Committed To See That You Enjoy Satisfaction In This Aspect Of Your Life In Your Marriage.

UZODINMA (M.O.G)
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Saturday, February 12, 2011

How To Have Morning Sex

Now, what can be more romantic, and not to mention energizing, than to start your day with sex? I can hardly think of a better answer. However, what if your wife is not a morning person? If your morning advances have not been positively answered instead you are often told i’m story because I am not in the mode, then you’re probably doing something wrong.

If you want to have guaranteed morning sex with your woman? Follow these tips.

1) Make Sure You Smell Good: I’ll state it here clearly that bad morning breath sucks! It’s a real turn off so don’t even start if you suffer from bad morning breath. To get around this, here’s a simple solution: get up, go to the bathroom to relieve yourself and brush your teeth! This actually has two advantages: one, your breath smells fresh and two, the minty aftertaste wakes her up. Having a sweet or mint in your bedside drawer is also good.

2) Be Slow and Gentle: Most people hate being rudely awakened and this include your woman. So instead of getting on top of her and kissing her fervently, go slow! Reach out and gently fondle her nipples through her clothing. You’ll see them get hard even while she’s still sleeping. Who knows, she might even think she’s dreaming and get all lusty and wet even before she wakes up!

After spending some time fondling and cupping her breasts, start kissing and breathing warmly against her neck; progress to licking it. If she’s turned on her side all the better because this means you can press against her with your stiff manhood. Rub against her. I repeat this: RUB against her, not pump. Again the key here is to almost lazily make love, not hungrily.

Ok, by now, she’s surely waking up! Don’t ruin it by simply going for intercourse. Remember, she may not even be wet yet. So compliment her right away. Say something like “Baby, the curves of your lips is so sexy and tantalizing, can I suck it?” Also, since you’ve been fondling her breasts you can say “your nipples are so erect Honey, can I kiss it?” But of course, you won’t JUST kiss it! You can also guide her hand on your erection and, while still holding her hand, rub your own stiffness with it. Don’t worry, she’ll get the idea soon enough!

3) Is She Wet Already? As she starts to rub you, leave her hand and return the favor. Reach down between her legs and start fondling her there too, making sure she’s ready for you. On the rare chance that she’s not but you see that she’s very much in to morning sex already, enter under the bed sheets, draw her undies down and give her some good oral.

Now that you’re both hot for each other, go for the kill! However, if your natural tendency is to talk dirty, try not to do it this time. Remember, morning sex, at least for most women, is tantamount to slow, romantic, lazy sex so try to stick to this!

UZODINMA(M.O.G)
john.couplesforum@gmail.com

Friday, February 11, 2011

HOW TO SEDUCE A MAN !

The reason why so many marriages are having cracks is because some of the women do not know how to make their husbands desire to come home.

Some time it is because of the way the women behave that makes some men choose to safisfy their sexual urge outside.

I once heard a story of a woman who was always unkept, the man tried as much as possible to bring his wife up to look like the other women that he often sees out their in the office but this woman would not want to change.
One faithful day the man intentionally invited his wife to his office, on arrival she was welcomed into her husbands office. A minute later, the man called in a lady to ask his wife what she might be interested in taking as entertainment. She poped her eyes open when a lady came in well dressed and her upper front region were quite heavy. As the lady finished her enquiry and turned back, kai olololo, behold her dressing and her back region, the woman asked her husband immediately, Honey, who is this? The man replied, she is my secretary. On getting home that day she taught twice. When the man got home he could not recognise his wife again, now the woman looking cool and sexy to welcome her husband home. The man tried to know what happened, she cried out: I don't want that lady in your office to take you away from me.
Most women have given out their men. For you not to loose your man in a few days to come, it does not matter how spiritual he may be, do not forget that he is putting on FLESH, this is a must read for you.

Here are the few tips on how you can seduce your man.

1) SMELL GREAT: Pick out a fragrance that your man really likes.
Once he smells you, he'll be unable to resist you the rest of the evening.

2) FEEL SEXY: Spend a day pampering yourself and making yourself feel even sexier than you did before. Whatever makes you to feel sexy all over will help in seducing your man and make you all that much more desirable.

3) SURPRISE HIM: Join him in the shower one morning or evening when he isn't expecting you to. Offer to wash his hair and back for him. Just having your soapy hands on him, teasing him, will get him going.

4) TAKE A PICTURE OF YOURSELF WITH A DIGITAL CAMERA: Wear something he just absolutely loves. Now crop out certain parts of your body and email or send them to his work periodically. Save the best ones for the last and by the end of the day, he'll have the whole picture and be ready to come home!

5) USE YOUR IMAGINATION: If you happen to be on the table together eating, you can leave him on the table go right into the bedroom lieing down naked pretending to have slept or not to be aware when he has entered the room or you wear your sexy panties. When he enters and sees you like that, oh no his eyes will pop open like pop corn.

The possibilities are endless when it comes to seducing your man. He finds you sexy so almost any idea you come up with will be successful.
Enjoy it and be yourself.

Some women get nervous for fear of rejection but you should know by now that a man hardly ever turns down any form of seduction.

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Uzodinma (M.O.G)

Thursday, February 3, 2011

HOW TO BRING UNITY INTO YOUR MARRIAGE

By wisdom a house is built, through understanding it is established, and through knowledge its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures.

From the words you just read above, we can deduce that marriage is to be built. Good marriage and marital bliss do not just happen. You must desire the best of marital relationship; picture it, design it, visualize your marriage, give it the best architectural design, and then settle down to construct what you have designed.

It takes knowledge-based work to build a home. Without knowledge, there cannot be an understanding of any process. The proper understanding shows you the steps to take. Wisdom is knowing what to do and then convincingly step out to do it, hindrances notwithstanding.

Acquiring right and quality knowledge about marriage, gives you the grace to choose right. You must know what you are looking for so as to recognize it when you see or come across it.

I’ve heard some youth, especially males, saying ‘with money you will get a good wife to marry’. It is a misconception on the side of such youths. Money without adequate knowledge about marriage leads to misplacement of priority in your choice-making. People of knowledge have the understanding of what to expect in a marriage. They recognize ‘marriage material’ (so to say) when they come across one; not beauty, not class room education, or family background.

Understanding gained through knowledge stirs up your instinct to know and recognize what is good for you. Understanding that marriage has to be built by love, patience, perseverance and determination on the part of the duo, has helped many to have a good home. For the word says, two cannot walk/work together unless they be in agreement. Agreement helps to bring unity. Knowing gives you the understanding to establish your family to be the envy of others.

One thing that could bring about steady progress in marriage is unity. This is usually achieved where there is:
(a) Mutual respect for each other
(b) The proper understanding of why couples are together and understanding of the importance of oneness of mind to achieve their set goals as partner in progress.
Unity of mind and soul and not just the body is very crucial to the life and success of marriage.

Why Unity
Change is so rapid these days that it takes couple’s unwavering focus on their goals to achieve greatness together, so that the flood of constant change does not derail them and bring them to an undesired destination.
The challenges of growth are enormous and frightening. It is so obvious now that the days of standing alone to become successful has gone for good. The word says ‘if your eyes be single, your body will be full of light’. You need a shinning, much brighter light, which a man or woman standing alone may not be able to generate. One will kill a thousand, and two ten thousand, says the word of wisdom. So you need the cooperation of your partner to shine brighter and brighter until the end of time.

What is Unity?
Unity is a state of being in agreement and working together. It is being joined together to form one unit. This meaning could be taken to be same as marriage.

What are the Reasons for Lack of Unity?
Lack of unity in any marriage relationship shows that the couples are just co-tenants. The oil has gone out of the lamp which is supposed, to show the true direction to progress, peace and contentment has been put off. So darkness, complaining, murmuring, resentment have taken over. Such couples are moving against the wind, and very soon the storm shall sway them off the right course of life.

It is difficult to enjoy unity in your marriage if you are not a man or a woman of your word. Or when you keep shifting post. When you abuse the trust invested by your spouse in you, you rupture the water that keeps your love alive. Lack of unity shows trust has been murdered. Integrity brings trust, and trust fosters unity. It will be foolish to walk with a man or woman who does not know how to keep promises. Many husbands and wives are mentally ill today because their trust was abused by somebody they trusted. Help your spouse to be in sound mind all of his/her life by cultivating unity in your marriage. It is not advisable to pitch your tent with man and woman, without ambition. Or one who is not looking at his/her future as important. Unity calls for proper analysis of things. So you must show responsibility to enjoy unity.

One Thing Is Needful
You cannot achieve unity or oneness in your marriage by yourself. For the word of God says: ‘And lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight’. Do not be wise in your own eyes. Pray the kingdom of God into your heart, your spouse heart, your home and family. Pray the wisdom of God into the affairs of your life and family. Let God know that you are relying on Him for all things. And He will step in.

Uzodinma (M O G)
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