In this article you are going to discover 6 huge myths about female sexuality. So if you want to know the truth about women and sex -- read on carefully...
Myths About Female Sexuality #1: Women Don't Like Sex As Much As Men Do....
Many people think that women don't like sex as much as men, but the truth is that women absolutely love sex.
However, unlike men who are usually happy to get any sex -- women only want GREAT SEX.
Myths About Female Sexuality #2: Women Don't Want Men To Take Control During Sex
Some people believe that women want to take control in the bedroom and hate it when a man tries to do the same.
The truth is that most of the time, women want their men to TAKE CONTROL during sex. This is because women are usually sexually submissive in the bedroom and submissive people don't take control. Instead -- they follow.
Myths About Female Sexuality #3: Some Women Can't Have An Orgasm
Up to 30% of women have never had an orgasm.
However, this does not mean that some women can't orgasm. Every woman who has a brain and a vagina has the power to experience an orgasm.
As men, we need good sexual beliefs, sound knowledge of female anatomy and proven sex techniques and the ability to take control in the bedroom. When we have these things -- will have the ability to teach any woman how to have an orgasm.
Myths About Female Sexuality #4: Women Only Want Guys Who Are 'Big Down There'
Ah, the old 'size matters' myth.
The reality is that women want men who give them incredible sexual pleasure and mind-blowing orgasms.
Big or small -- it really doesn't matter. Just give your woman powerful orgasms and she'll be happy in the bedroom.
Myths About Female Sexuality #5: Women Only Want Sexually Experienced Men
Again, women don't care how much sexual experience a man has. What women really want is a man who gives them incredible sex.
Myths About Female Sexuality #6: Women Aren't As Sexual As Men
This last myth is a bad joke.
Consider this fact:
Women are capable of having clitoral, vaginal, multiple and squirting. Heck, they can even have 'mindgasms' (orgasms without any physical touching).
And you're telling me women aren't as sexual as men?
The reality is that women are way more sexual than men, but as a man -- you have to bring that sexuality out of your woman. She cannot do it all on her own.
Thursday, January 26, 2012
Why Can't Men Remember Anniversaries?
Do you have trouble remembering special dates such as birthdays, holidays, wedding anniversaries? To find out why, let's look at which dates we can remember, and which we can't:
Birthdays
Every one can remember their own date of birth even though most of us have trouble remembering the actual day of our birth!
So why do we remember our birthday?
Well, presumably it's because we celebrate it every year with our family and friends, and it is a key part of every form we ever complete. If we forget our birthday, we could never get a passport or a driver's licence, get married... you get the picture!
Holidays and Other Celebrations
Most of us can remember these holidays and celebrations:
Christmas Day: 25th December
New Year's Day: 1st January
National 'Birthdays': e.g. Nigeria Independence: 1st October, U.S. Independence Day: 4th July, Canada Day: 1st July
Valentine's Day: 14th February
Remembrance Day: 11th November
Why do we remember these? Well, they are ingrained in tradition, they fall on the same date every year and, for most of them, we get rewarded with a day off work!
Most of us celebrate other holidays and religious festivals, such as Easter and Thanksgiving. These events are important to us spiritually, emotionally or just because we get the day off work to spend with families and friends! We know roughly when they occur but, because the dates vary every year (e.g. the first Monday of September, say), very few of us know the actual dates.
Other People's Birthdays and Anniversaries:
Most of us can remember birthdays for those who are close to us: family members, close friends, spouses. But it becomes increasingly difficult as the relationship weakens and most people resort to calendars and Facebook to remember friends' birthdays. As for other people's wedding anniversaries, these rapidly become forgotten and are not traditionally celebrated by non-family members except perhaps the 1st, 10th, 25th and 50th.
Why Do We Remember Some Dates?
Based on this research, it seems that the reasons we remember certain dates are:
Repetition: The event falls on the same date every year
Duration: The longer we have been celebrating an event, the easier it is to remember
Importance: How important is the event, and what is the penalty for forgetting?
Tradition: The event is religious or part of popular culture
Celebration: The more people that take part, the more likely we are to remember
Reward: Receiving gifts, or getting a day off work, appears to enhance memory!
Wedding Anniversaries Should Be Memorable
A wedding anniversary seems to meet almost all of the criteria for a memorable event. It falls on the same date every year, it is traditional to celebrate it and we receive gifts. It is the most important date in a relationship and many say it was the happiest day of their lives. Not only that, but the penalty for forgetting can be quite severe!
Why Can't Men Remember Their Wedding Anniversary?
I suspect that it has a lot to do with:
Duration & Repetition: By definition, we don't start celebrating wedding anniversaries until after we get married, so it is a new date for us and takes a while to become ingrained. So, if there's any good news, it's that the longer we stay married, the more likely we are to remember!
Support: Also, if we happen to forget, we have to rely on our friends to remind us. So for men, that means having to rely on other men to remember their wedding anniversary - imagine the chance of that!
I also think it would help if:
We were given a day off work to celebrate our wedding anniversary
We had to use our anniversary date on all government forms
Our friends would help us to remember by celebrating with us
We receive thoughtful gifts to show that we're appreciated
Why Do Women Remember Anniversaries when Men Don't?
I think the answer revolves around the emotional time and effort that women invest in planning and preparing for the wedding, that they are generally more romantic than men, better at celebrating life's important events and have a stronger network of friends that help them to remember. Of course, I could be wrong - I usually am! I'd love to know what you think - please leave a comment below.
Celebrate Your Anniversary!
I'm sure that there are some women & Men that have occasionally forgotten their anniversary. Regardless of your past record, you can put it right going forward.
So, if you have trouble remembering your wedding anniversary date, you're not alone! Look it up, write it in a calendar or set up an electronic reminder.
And, if your anniversary is coming up soon, you should celebrate in style.
Birthdays
Every one can remember their own date of birth even though most of us have trouble remembering the actual day of our birth!
So why do we remember our birthday?
Well, presumably it's because we celebrate it every year with our family and friends, and it is a key part of every form we ever complete. If we forget our birthday, we could never get a passport or a driver's licence, get married... you get the picture!
Holidays and Other Celebrations
Most of us can remember these holidays and celebrations:
Christmas Day: 25th December
New Year's Day: 1st January
National 'Birthdays': e.g. Nigeria Independence: 1st October, U.S. Independence Day: 4th July, Canada Day: 1st July
Valentine's Day: 14th February
Remembrance Day: 11th November
Why do we remember these? Well, they are ingrained in tradition, they fall on the same date every year and, for most of them, we get rewarded with a day off work!
Most of us celebrate other holidays and religious festivals, such as Easter and Thanksgiving. These events are important to us spiritually, emotionally or just because we get the day off work to spend with families and friends! We know roughly when they occur but, because the dates vary every year (e.g. the first Monday of September, say), very few of us know the actual dates.
Other People's Birthdays and Anniversaries:
Most of us can remember birthdays for those who are close to us: family members, close friends, spouses. But it becomes increasingly difficult as the relationship weakens and most people resort to calendars and Facebook to remember friends' birthdays. As for other people's wedding anniversaries, these rapidly become forgotten and are not traditionally celebrated by non-family members except perhaps the 1st, 10th, 25th and 50th.
Why Do We Remember Some Dates?
Based on this research, it seems that the reasons we remember certain dates are:
Repetition: The event falls on the same date every year
Duration: The longer we have been celebrating an event, the easier it is to remember
Importance: How important is the event, and what is the penalty for forgetting?
Tradition: The event is religious or part of popular culture
Celebration: The more people that take part, the more likely we are to remember
Reward: Receiving gifts, or getting a day off work, appears to enhance memory!
Wedding Anniversaries Should Be Memorable
A wedding anniversary seems to meet almost all of the criteria for a memorable event. It falls on the same date every year, it is traditional to celebrate it and we receive gifts. It is the most important date in a relationship and many say it was the happiest day of their lives. Not only that, but the penalty for forgetting can be quite severe!
Why Can't Men Remember Their Wedding Anniversary?
I suspect that it has a lot to do with:
Duration & Repetition: By definition, we don't start celebrating wedding anniversaries until after we get married, so it is a new date for us and takes a while to become ingrained. So, if there's any good news, it's that the longer we stay married, the more likely we are to remember!
Support: Also, if we happen to forget, we have to rely on our friends to remind us. So for men, that means having to rely on other men to remember their wedding anniversary - imagine the chance of that!
I also think it would help if:
We were given a day off work to celebrate our wedding anniversary
We had to use our anniversary date on all government forms
Our friends would help us to remember by celebrating with us
We receive thoughtful gifts to show that we're appreciated
Why Do Women Remember Anniversaries when Men Don't?
I think the answer revolves around the emotional time and effort that women invest in planning and preparing for the wedding, that they are generally more romantic than men, better at celebrating life's important events and have a stronger network of friends that help them to remember. Of course, I could be wrong - I usually am! I'd love to know what you think - please leave a comment below.
Celebrate Your Anniversary!
I'm sure that there are some women & Men that have occasionally forgotten their anniversary. Regardless of your past record, you can put it right going forward.
So, if you have trouble remembering your wedding anniversary date, you're not alone! Look it up, write it in a calendar or set up an electronic reminder.
And, if your anniversary is coming up soon, you should celebrate in style.
Thursday, January 19, 2012
Don't Be The Woman That Needs a Man, Be The Woman a Man Needs!
Are you a single lady?
Do you have a long list of requirements for your potential mate?
Are these expectations exhaustive and unrealistic?
Instead of waiting for Mr Right to walk blissfully in to your life, why not start preparing for them.
If you want a partner that is fit, healthy, ambitious, passionate, focused, driven, loving and who cares for their family, then it stands to reason that you must first become all of those things yourself.
Like attracts like, so if you want to attract someone who is beautiful both inside and out then you must reflect that in your actions, thoughts and deeds. When you fall in love with yourself it allows the whole world to love you too. Work on improving daily by being a better person while having unwavering faith that there is someone out here made especially for you. If your paths have not met up until now, it just means that there is more preparation to do.
Men need a woman who is strong and self sufficient. Not one who comes across needy or insecure. The only way to become that woman is to work within your passion. Think about the wonderful plans you had for yourself as a child, 'have you done everything you ever wanted to?' is there a class you have been meaning to take? A business that you know you should start? whatever it is get to it.
Really think to yourself 'what type of wife do I want to be' what can I bring to the relationship? Instead of having a list of expectation's for your potential partner, have a list of what you can offer instead. What can you give? What qualities do you bring to the table? How can you enhance someone else's life? Once you have the answers you will have the blueprint for the areas that you need to work on.
Maybe you need to learn how to cook? Because you want to be a stay at home mom, Or maybe you would rather be the bread winner so you have to now focus on growing you business or career? Could you do with being more patient, forgiving, loving, romantic?
Improving yourself brings great reward to yourself and those around And the result is that you become more valuable, gain self respect and build confidence.
Just think about how great you are going to look and feel when love finds you. You will be fully in Joy and ready to share your true unconditional love.
Remember 'if you haven't met your soul mate yet then it just means that this is the time to fall in love with YOU'
Work towards creating a wonderful future and the rest will follow!
'The most important relationship you will ever have is with yourself.'
To learn HOW to become the Woman a man needs.
Do you have a long list of requirements for your potential mate?
Are these expectations exhaustive and unrealistic?
Instead of waiting for Mr Right to walk blissfully in to your life, why not start preparing for them.
If you want a partner that is fit, healthy, ambitious, passionate, focused, driven, loving and who cares for their family, then it stands to reason that you must first become all of those things yourself.
Like attracts like, so if you want to attract someone who is beautiful both inside and out then you must reflect that in your actions, thoughts and deeds. When you fall in love with yourself it allows the whole world to love you too. Work on improving daily by being a better person while having unwavering faith that there is someone out here made especially for you. If your paths have not met up until now, it just means that there is more preparation to do.
Men need a woman who is strong and self sufficient. Not one who comes across needy or insecure. The only way to become that woman is to work within your passion. Think about the wonderful plans you had for yourself as a child, 'have you done everything you ever wanted to?' is there a class you have been meaning to take? A business that you know you should start? whatever it is get to it.
Really think to yourself 'what type of wife do I want to be' what can I bring to the relationship? Instead of having a list of expectation's for your potential partner, have a list of what you can offer instead. What can you give? What qualities do you bring to the table? How can you enhance someone else's life? Once you have the answers you will have the blueprint for the areas that you need to work on.
Maybe you need to learn how to cook? Because you want to be a stay at home mom, Or maybe you would rather be the bread winner so you have to now focus on growing you business or career? Could you do with being more patient, forgiving, loving, romantic?
Improving yourself brings great reward to yourself and those around And the result is that you become more valuable, gain self respect and build confidence.
Just think about how great you are going to look and feel when love finds you. You will be fully in Joy and ready to share your true unconditional love.
Remember 'if you haven't met your soul mate yet then it just means that this is the time to fall in love with YOU'
Work towards creating a wonderful future and the rest will follow!
'The most important relationship you will ever have is with yourself.'
To learn HOW to become the Woman a man needs.
Little Things That Make or Break a Relationship
Just as tiny drops of water make an ocean, little actions of Love and Care strengthens a relationships. It takes years to build the much-needed trust in a relationship while it takes just an action of callousness to break the bond. Both men and women need to work in tandem to complement each other in a relationship. Just telling how much you love each other is not enough. Every action of yours should speak about the Love you feel towards each other. Here are some of the things that guys as well as ladies should do to keep their bond strong day after day.
Wish your Lady 'Good Morning' and 'Good Night' Everyday. Trivial as it might sound but all women appreciate this little gesture. If she lives with you, then begin your day with a warm, cozy hug. Else, send her a lovey-dovey good morning text. This will surely be a very good beginning to her day. In addition, make sure you end your day with a Loving Goodnight text and a Goodnight Kiss. And if your ladylove is by your side, you have enough ways to say Goodnight to her.
Likewise, women should be sensitive to their partners when they return stressed after a hard day at office. Often, women overlook the fact that their partners want to relax when they come home and not be welcomed with complaints or nagging issues. A warm cup of tea or coffee, a relaxing neck or head massage, and a warm welcome at home is more than enough for men to feel blessed.
Women love to be cared for. Men should remember this and offer her to drop off wherever she is heading to occasionally like office or supermarket. This does not mean that she cannot travel or go alone. It only means that the guy cares for her and wants her to be safe.
Sharing is one of the most important building stones in a relationship. Share your day's experience, your biggest fears and happiness, and your secrets (serious ones or extreme dumb ones) with your partner. These little things help to uncover the facets of each other's personalities and help to know each other better. In addition, these revelations help to build faith in each other.
Remembering important dates is also a vital aspect that assures, especially women, how much the man in her life values her. Men are not too good with dates but the best thing they can do is save dates like her birthday or anniversary date on the calendar. Forgetting important dates is a very sensitive issue amongst most women. So guys, why give them the chance to complain?
Last but not the least, no matter how many times your lady has said that gifts don't matter, she will love it when you surprise her with gifts. Gifts do not have to be expensive always. They should complement the occasion and ooze with love and tenderness. So, always keep in mind to shower your love with pretty gifts once in a while.
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