42 Warning Signs and Clues That Your Man Might Be Cheating

Some women failed to spot and have overlooked their husband's signs and clues of cheating, they are often the last one to know about their man's infidelity. Don't be that WOMAN! To avoid becoming that poor woman, women must to learn how to catch the cheater in the earliest stage. Before you learn how to catch the cheater, you need to know how to spot signs and clues of men's cheating behaviors. Men's cheating behaviors often have similar clues, signs and patterns. So, how do women tell the difference between an innocent and a real cheating behavior? Clues and signs of men's cheating do vary from time to time, but when a man shows multiple suspicious signs or clues of cheating behaviors, his woman should have a serious doubt that he might be cheating.
The following is a list of 42 men's cheating signs, clues, and behaviors:

1) He has more frequent work overtime.

2) He has more frequent business trips.

3) When he picks up his cell phone calls at home he always whispers, or he would walk to another room first, and then pick up the call.

4) He stops wearing his wedding ring.

5) You caught him many times not wearing his ring, and so he always told you he forgot to put it back after he took a shower.

6) Whenever you go out, he goes out right after you.

7) He goes to the gym more frequently than he used to.

8) He picks on your flaws more frequently than he used to.

9) He gives you more freedom than he used to, and doesn't seem to care when you come home late.

10) He doesn't tell you about his day off from work, and pretends to go to work as usual.

11) He is more critical towards you, and gets irritated when you make tiny mistakes.

12) He doesn't try to comfort and pamper you like he used when you are sad.

13) He refuses to have sex with you.

14) He doesn't touch or kiss you like he used to.

15) He starts to care about his appearance.

16) He starts to use skin care products, which he refused to use in the past.

17) There is lipstick mark on his shirt collar.

18) You smell women's perfume on him.

19) You smell fresh shower gel on his skin when he comes home from work.

20) He doesn't seem to care about where you are and whatever you do.

21) He doesn't get jealous like he used to when you talk to your male friends on the phone.

22) He is reluctant to hold your hand in public.

23) He frequently turns his phone on silent.

24) He turns off his phone text message instant notification function.

25) He gets mad when you ask about his new working schedule.

26) He gets sensitive and impatient when you ask him about where he is.

27) He doesn't want you to get pregnant like he used to.

28) When you want to have sex, he always tells you he is tired from work.

29) He starts arguments and doesn't back down like he used to.

30) You find dinning receipts from upscale restaurants you have never been to.

31) He starts to lock his room when he is not home.

32) He sets identification user lock on his computer.

33) He deletes webpage browse history on his computer.

34) He takes shower as soon as he arrives home.

35) He used to let you shop for his underwear, and now he has new underwear not purchased by you.

36) He doesn't carry family photo in his wallet like he used to.

37) He insists doing his own laundry.

38) He doesn't stay home on weekend like he used to.

39) He starts to treat you a lot nicer whenever he comes back from a business trip.

40) He gets offended and nervous when you asked about the miss calls on his cell phone.

41) You felt something is going on, and something is wrong but you are not sure what it is.

42) He mistakenly mentioned about having dinner in a restaurant he thought he had with you, but you have never been to that restaurant in your life.

Follow and trust your instinct, because women's intuition and instincts are often very accurate. However, don't start questioning him before you collect all of the solid evidences, because you could be wrong and have misread the true meaning behind his behaviors. Remember he will remain innocent until proven guilty. Even if his actions matches several above mentioned examples; you must use your own judgment and reference against the solid evidence you have collected before you go up and accuse him.

Furthermore, just because he seemed suspicious doesn't necessarily mean he is really cheating. Maybe he had legit and right reasons to back him up. Just because he starts to care about his appearance, it doesn't mean he is dating other women. If your man matches several clues or signs from the above list, now is the time for you to start and collect solid evidences of his infidelity!

Men' infidelity can be prevented if women understand men's motive, drive and how men's mindset works!

Sex - Here Are 5 Bad Things That Happen When You Fail To Give Your Woman Orgasms In The Bedroom

Women need ORGASMS but most men struggle to sexually satisfy their women. Read this article and find out about the bad things that can happen if you fail to give your woman orgasms and sexual satisfaction in the bedroom...

1. Your Woman Starts To Lose Interest In Sex:

When a woman is not sexually fulfilled and her man is not giving her orgasms in the bedroom, the first thing that usually happens is that she starts to lose interest in having sex.

Makes sense, right?

Women are no different -- they need to have orgasms in order to fully enjoy sex.

2. Your Woman Starts To Think About Other Men:

If you repeatedly fail to give your woman orgasms during sex, your woman may definitely start to think about other men -- men who she thinks could give her more SEXUAL PLEASURE than you can.

Once your woman starts to think about having sex with other men, in an effort to get the sexual satisfaction that she desires -- you are in trouble.

3. Your Woman Cheats On You:

50% of women admit to cheating on their men at least once. People only cheat when they are not happy and fulfilled in their relationship for one reason or another.

A huge reason why many women cheat is because they have a burning desire and serious need to have GREAT SEX, complete with mind-blowing orgasms.

If you don't give your woman that type of sexual pleasure -- she may well look elsewhere which is not good.

4. Your Woman Leaves You For Another Man:

Relationships fall apart all the time. Women leave men and men leave women.

Many women leave men at least in part because their sex-life was lousy and they found a new and more exciting sexual partner.

5. Your Sexual Confidence Decreases:

If you repeatedly fail to give your woman orgasms during sex, your sexual confidence will decrease and that's a very bad thing because it will lower your woman's attraction to you and make it even harder for her to take you seriously in the bedroom.

And if your woman doesn't take you seriously and respect you -- you'll really struggle to give her an orgasm. Period.

The bottom line is that most men are lousy lovers and most women are sexually unfulfilled to varying degrees.

If you want to have a happy and fulfilling sexual relationship with your woman -- you must give her vaginal orgasms. When you give her VAGINAL ORGASMS, she'll see you as the best she's ever had. Guaranteed.

Men and Lies - Why Does He Lie to You?

Is your man a frequent liar much like other people are frequent fliers? Have you caught him in a number of 'senseless' lies or tries to explain away? The lies are senseless to you since you just cannot understand why he does it. It seems to you that the truth would be so much easier but he clearly has a different perspective.

So why does he lie to you?

1. Loss Of Dignity or Face: Dignity or his idea of what that entails can be a never ending motive for him to lie to you. If he has this image in his mind of who he is and what he wants the world (and you especially) to think of him then he will maintain that image at ALL costs...and if he has to lie to do so then he will! If he suspects that you are beginning to see him in a less than what-he-wants-to-project light then he will lie to get back your perspective of him to where he wants it to be. This is a real problem early in the relationship when he is trying to impress you with his greatness but if your man's ego is fragile or bigger than life then his lies may be a constant reality throughout your relationship.

2. Loss Of Respect By You or Others: He wants your respect or admiration or high regard and he will lie to you to get it and to keep it. He may embellish or exaggerate his position or his achievements or his childhood or his performance or his intelligence or whatever else he prides himself on, so that you can continue to think highly of him and all that he is or was or continues to be.

3. He Fears That You May Not Accept Him As He Is: Yes he also has self esteem issues buried somewhere under that muscular chest and he suspects that if you knew who he really was then you would not want him in your life or you would not be interested in being with him. He thus lies to you so that he can provide you with the type of man that he believes that you want. This is especially true when he really likes you but he knows that there are aspects or things that he does that will repeal you. He lies to you at the beginning with the hope that with time you will be able to like and accept all that he is.

4. He Fears That You Will Reject Him: He will lie when he thinks that you will reject him or his advances. This is particularly true when you have just met or are in the early days when you are both wary of each other and are busy sizing each other up. If he really likes what he sees in you but isn't sure about how you feel then he may lie to ensure that you accept him.

5. He Fears Ridicule: He may fear that if you knew something's about him then you would poke fun at him. You may think that it is innocent fun but if you tend to make fun of him most of the time then he will lie or omit telling you things so as to stop providing you with the ammunition that you will use to mock him or his efforts or his performance or whatever it is that you enjoy teasing him about.

6. He Fears Failure: Men abhor failure in any form as many of them find accomplishment and well being in their career successes. If he is not doing as well as his male friends or colleagues then he may lie by omitting to tell you the true state of how things really are. If he is going through financial strain or even possible job loss then he may keep that to himself and he may genuinely feel that he is protecting you by not letting you know how bad things really are. He somehow hopes that the silence or lies will shield him from the harsh reality that he is not providing as a 'real' man should.

7. He Is Afraid That You May Discover A Truth That May Threaten The Relationship or Your Image Of Him: A guy may lie if he knows that there are things that he may have done or been involved in that would destroy your relationship if you found out. If he has a criminal past then he may not disclose that to you if he thinks it would jeopardize what he has with you.

8. He Fears Punishment: He may have done something stupid or something that can hurt you...if you found out. He may therefore lie to avoid the consequences of his deeds. If he is having an affair or he has lost that loving feeling for you then confession will not be a top priority for him. He w

ill thus lie to you so as to keep your wrath and hurt away from him for as long as possible.

A man lies to you for various reasons but if you can find out why your man is lying to you then you can find a way to stop him. Lies erode the trust that you have in your man especially when they occur in what you consider key areas and they can stunt the growth of a relationship if not dealt with.

Type of Women That Men Do Not Want to Be Around

There are women who are very much endowed with a beautiful face, shape, height etc but their relationships always tend to fail miserably... Why? Because they all seem to have some common habits, traits and qualities that would scare men in general away!

No man wants to be with women who take everything from men for granted and never in return gives anything back. Some women expect men to take care and pamper them, to pay for their bills, house rents, to buy them gifts, and show them favors, but on the other hand, they wouldn't do anything for their man. This is commonly known as the "PRINCESS SYNDROME" and most men will not want to be around such women. Love is at its best when both the man and woman are both contributing their love and efforts to make their relationship or marriage work! Giving and receiving in love should be a two-way traffic, if a woman only receive but does not give, most men will not stand it for very long as they are not fools, and they are not obligated to give and provide all the time. Over time, they will grow tired and start to drift away from the relationship or marriage. Men are quite serious about the first date and how a woman behave in the beginning of a relationship, if a woman plays too much game, testing men such as being late on purpose and playing hard to get, most men would just give up. Men also hate annoying women, and fear women who spell trouble. Below are examples of some women habits and qualities that men dislike:


1. Women who expect men to doing thing for them but never give anything in return.

2. Women who think she is the hottest thing in the world and men should worship her.

3. Women who are cheap and doesn't spend any money on her man.

4. Women who think being late is no big deal and claiming she was just being fashionably late.

5. Women who are close minded and always gossip about others, including her friends.

6. Women who has lousy table manner and etiquette who play with food and make disturbing sound when eating.

7. Women who worship designer brands and expect men to buy for them.

8. Women who play love games in certain ways that make men feel disrespected.

9. Women who love to start arguments and have frequent mood swings.

10. Women who talk crap about their ex-boyfriend.

11. Women who are gold diggers and require high-maintenance.

12. Women who thinks she is better than everyone else.

13. Women who are passive, negative and hysterical.

14. Women who love to get drunk all the time.

15. Women who always act like a smart ass.


Most men do not want to be around women with above qualities! Some men would date them but they would never consider marrying them. In the end, when it comes to marriage and finding a lifetime partner, men and women both tend to look for someone who is genuine, sincere, loving, caring and down to the earth.
After all, no one wants to be around someone who is selfish and demanding.

…..To Live Miserable At Old Age, Don’t Do This!

1. WRONG ASSOCIATION: Your contact with the right man is your link to the throne. The company you keep determines the impacts you will make. John Mason said, ‘’Your true friends are those who bring out the best in you”. If you walk with people of vision, you will become visionary. Beware! Success and failure are contagious and the mode of transmission is friendship.

2. BAD MARRIAGE: Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate but through being the right mate. The best thing you can do for yourself and future is to consciously build a good home. Your marriage should be a role model to people around you. You can’t adequately prepare for a good life without a good spouse. Learn how to make your own marriage work; do not pretend that all is well when they are not. Rise up to build a glorious marriage for a better tomorrow.


3. SPENDING LOANS ON FRIVOLITIES: Loans are meant for viable projects, not for burial ceremonies, weddings, birthdays etc. If you are fortunate to get one, kindly spend it wisely by buying a land, building houses to rent out and/or investing wisely. Differentiate between needs and wants. Be a wise spender, if you are not prudent, you will spend all your earnings on personal needs.


4. NOT IMPROVING YOURSELF: Earth is not stagnant, neither is the business environment static. Hence, those who want to remain on the same spot. If you want to get to the top and remain at the top, you must be improving yourself constantly by reading, attending seminars and other life-enriching programmes. Be a dynamic person, if you fail to improve yourself, others who are fond of self improving will become your boss and you become their messenger.


5. FAILURE TO SAVE MONEY: Many people find it difficult to save money. They have a lot of excuses for not saving but no matter your reasons for not saving, it is unwise not to save. In fact, if you have no saving, you are saving for poverty.


6. FAILURE TO INVEST: This is another mistake you must never make. Never fail to invest your money. Don’t just save your money, invest it! Invest in viable projects like publishing of your own books, real estates, stocks and shares etc.


7. THINKING YOU ARE STILL FAR FROM RETIREMENT: Every day you spend at work takes you closer to retirement. If you are to retire in the next 35 years and you started working yesterday, it means you now have less than 35 years at work. The best time to prepare for retirement is now! One wise man said, “On the great clock of time, there is only but one word, NOW!” Success is the reaction of life to the actions that men dared to take.


8. EXCESSIVE BORROWING: Avoid borrowing like a plague. Never borrow for wedding, burial, birthday etc. To borrow means to ‘BORE’ your ‘MORROW’ i.e to drill your tomorrow, to spend the future today and remove the power of tomorrow

Getting Out Of Your Bedroom Comfort Zone

First of all, this is about going just a bit out of your bedroom comfort zone. So, how do you go about being a little wilder in bed? Let us count the ways.

Pull Her To You: One of the mildest things you can do that will have a really thrilling effect on her is if you pull her – hard – towards you. It shows you want to be in command. It shows you can be ...... And it conveys the message that she is just there to pleasure you. I know that’s a lot of messages for a slightly rough act but don’t worry, she’ll think of it that way.

Consume Her: After some heavy (and I mean really heavy!) foreplay, go down and perform with your hands. However, don’t just do this for a few seconds and move on. Women hate that because it gives them the message that you just had to do it because it’s part of the ‘routine’ (sort of like having to pass by the bakery because it’s on the way home). No; this time, go down there with one single purpose: make her come.
This may shock your partner especially if you haven’t paid too much attention there before. In fact, once she feels really hot she may even be the one to try and pull you off (she’s not used to you making her come via that, you see). Well, whatever she does, stay there. You have a mission remember? Now don’t budge until you’ve achieved it!

Try Something Completely Different: When it comes to positions, try something completely out of the ‘routine’. Don’t do something too wild that you scare her though. Instead, just apply a simple variation to what you guys normally do. For example, instead of woman-on-top facing you, try reverse cow girl (woman-on-top but facing your feet). Here’s another hot one: reverse cow girl being milked, which is woman-on-top, facing your feet, but you have one leg bent. So as she straddles your member (her body slightly turned sideways), your bent leg is grazing her clitoris.
As for the missionary position, you can apply a lot of variety on that one too. Put a pillow under her bottom and then hold her legs (by the ankles) straight up in front of you as you enter her. Keeping her legs together as your move makes for a tighter fit.

Don’t Be Afraid To Make A Sound: Most men do not make a sound when they come. I guess they think it’s unmanly. However, you don’t need to emit a high-pitched scream to show her just how hard and magnificent your climax is. You can just groan a bit louder and harder. Once your woman hears just how much pleasure you’re getting from coming, you can bet she’ll be doing her darn best to really goad you on!
Start By Making Small Changes: You won’t believe how hotter your sexual relationship will be by just showing a wilder side to you.

Enjoy yourselves this weekend.

Uzodinma M.O.G

Top 10 Things Women Wish Men Do Before, During and After Sex

BEFORE SEX, A WOMAN WANTS HER MAN TO...

1. Take A Shower – Going caveman on her is a turn on only if the man smells and tastes good. She would definitely volunteer to give her partner whatever he wants if he comes out of the shower smelling fresh and clean. Hairy men need to pay particular attention to their hygiene as hairiness will always mean more deep seated dirt that could cause odor when mingled with sweat.

2. Woo Her To Bed – Even if you have been married for a long time, a lady wants to be seduced, enticed and tempted. During the day, a man should drop subtle signs that he wants to do it with her that night. It could be a tiny pinch on the hand while she’s fixing dinner or a playful butt slap when she passes by with the laundry. Catching her eye and giving her the “sex me up” look makes her feel sexy and excited to do just that.

3. Give Her A Massage – Texture play is as much a woman’s thing as it is a man’s. There’s nothing more sensual than feeling his hand all over her body before sex. A massage is completely one way, and a woman loves to feel pampered. There’s a good chance that a man can get her to agree to anything he wants during sex if he gives her a good backrub first.

DURING SEX, A WOMAN WANTS HER MAN TO...

4. Take The Leader Role – Ladies are traditionally submissive and even the women who want to take charge during sex need to be told the direction to take. It is the man’s job to set the pace of the love making, and this includes telling her how he wants it, asking her to try new things and suggesting the best way for her to achieve the best orgasm.

5. Prolong Foreplay – There are men who jump a woman as soon as she’s naked and with legs spread wide. Make no mistake of it, a woman loves to feel her man’s hard penis inside her, but foreplay is a way to get her comfortable and prepped for orgasm. Experimenting with different pleasure spots will go a long way in keeping her wet during actual penetration. Make her want to go on top by prolonging foreplay enough to increase her urge to a feverish pitch.

6. Eat Her Out – the feel of a man’s tongue on a woman’s sensitive parts is both mentally and physically gratifying. If a man takes the time to pay proper homage to a woman’s portal of love, he will make her want to return the favor.

AFTER SEX, A WOMAN WANTS HER MAN TO…

7. Cuddle – A woman feels like basking in the aftermath of love making by cuddling with her partner. There are some women who feel emotional after sex, and a few ‘happy’ tears could be shed. Making her feel special after sex will make her consider a second round.

8. Be Ready For Another Round – Older men may find the request for another round immediately after the first as unreasonable. But we are talking about what women want here, and she definitely wants another round when the first one was so intense.

9. Fall Asleep With Her – There is nothing more romantic than falling asleep (or more appropriately, passing out) together after sex. She will feel very sleepy after a wonderful love making session, and a man has to wait only a few minutes before he can stand up to pee.

LASTLY, A WOMAN WANTS A MAN TO…

10. Stay Erect Before And During Sex! A rock hard erection will convey the message of desire and willingness to have the best night of love ever.