Career And Family (2) - Jobs That Endanger Family Life

In brief summary, we are considering those Job that can endanger our family life if not properly handled. We said that our career, like our family, is equally important, through our careers we get money to sustain our families and live a good live. Most of the time, career will be in conflict against family life. In this second piece of our article, I will be exposing to you some other jobs and career that can endanger family and marriages.

1) Jobs That Take You Away From God. Any job that takes you away from God Almighty will definitely affect your marriage. Jobs that involves telling lies, stealing, committing crimes for your company, tax evasion, bribery, corrupt practices, prostitution and sexual gratification for contract opportunities or to get a client to open account with your bank, etc. You can’t stay in these kind of jobs and think they will not affect your home. I read about a lady that was working with an events and tourism organization as an usher and protocol officer, and one of her duties was to sleep with guests if they so desire it. This they didn’t tell her before her appointment; she had to resign when she discovered this. Another story was of a wonderful lady who resigned from a lucrative banking job when she was asked to sleep with a “big customer” to get an account. Don’t stay in a job that can take you away from God and destroy your intimacy with the Almighty and eventually destroy your marriage and family life. You need God more than anybody. You need God more than that job. You need God now and you will need him tomorrow. Don’t destroy your life and your family life because of a bite of bread.

2) Jobs That Cannot Pay Your Bills. If you are working, you should at least, be able to meet your basic needs of life. If your ‘take-home-pay’ cannot ‘take you home’, I think you need another job. Money is needed to take good care of the home. In fact, there can be no Romance without Finance. If you want your wife to call you HONEY, give her MONEY. Don’t rest on your oars, improve yourself, and increase your capacity to make money. Go back to school if your present certificate makes your employer to pay you peanuts. Develop and improve yourself to be a better person. Don’t just say ‘God will do it’. Do something, do it now. Feed your family and keep your marriage.

3) Jobs That Separate You From Your Spouse More Than 75 Days A Year. Experts classified any job that separate couples more than 75 days a year as “Non-Family Friendly Jobs” (NFFJ). While jobs that separate couples more than 100 days a year are seen as “Family Enemy Jobs” (FEJ). Jobs that separate couples 150 days a year are known as “Family Cancer Jobs” (FCJ). Your family, your marriage become endangered as soon as your family enters a ‘NFFJ’ level; where you spend more than 75 days away from your spouse yearly. Anything can happen. It gives room for suspicion, negative thinking, lack of trust, temptation, sexual immoralities, lust, bad marriage and divorce. It is better to stay in a job that pays less but gives room to nurture your marriage and care for your children than to go for a job that makes you an Electronic Couples, (Couples that operate only through electronic means like phones, pager, fax, e-mails, etc). It is dangerous for you and your home; it exposes you to constant travel, keeping of two homes, loneliness in raising the children, etc. You need to count the cost before you venture into this kind of job.

4) Jobs That Destroy Intimacy. Experts say, For a couple to become intimate, they must have high ‘couples time’ or ‘initiate talking time (ITT)’. In fact, it was said that every couple should have at least 200 romantic hours per year; if they must become intimate and build a better marriage. The less the romantic hours, the higher the level of marriage destruction. In a city like Lagos, many couples are having less than 30 hours a year as romantic hours. That explains reason marriages are difficult for many especially in cities. Please note that romantic hours or intimate talking time is not the period you spend together watching television or even making love, it is the period you spend together playing or talking intimately. Any job that does not give room for that is not a family-friendly job. Some people leave home by 5am only to get back home around midnight everyday of the week. No marriage can grow in that kind of situation. That is why I am of the opinion that both husband and wife should not be in the banking sector at the same time or doing any job that makes both of them to leave home before dawn only to come back just before midnight.

5) Any Jobs You Do Without Wisdom. Every job is demanding and time consuming. In fact, what your employer is paying for is your skill, expertise and your time. You are the one that needs to sit down with your spouse and talk it through. Must both of you be in white collar jobs? Must you work overtime? Must you get a ‘better’ job that will take you away from your family? How about taking a casual leave once in a while just to be with your spouse; to talk, connect and reconnect? Must you be the one traveling every time? Must you always be on the road? You need to apply wisdom so that your marriage can be the best.

6) Any Job That Affect Your Sex Life. Experts says every couple should make love at least 45 times a year, any couple that makes love less than 20 times a year is said to be in a ‘sexless marriage’. One of the major things that affect sex in marriage is the kind of job the couples have. Any job that makes you to sleep with your spouse less than 45 times a year, for any reason, is not a family-friendly job. If you don’t do something fast, it will destroy your marriage. Again you need to talk to your spouse about this and agree about it.

About the G-Spot Orgasm…

Women can orgasm several different ways, via clitoral, vaginal, and of course the G-Spot, the latter can give her a massively satisfying orgasm if stimulated correctly.
Here we will look at how to find it and give your partner immense pleasure once you do!

Where is the G Spot?

The G-Spot is the area to target for maximum sexual arousal.
You will be able to help give added pleasure and a mind blowing climax to your partner if you can locate and stimulate it.

The G-Spot is essentially a bean shaped area of nerve tissue, located about halfway between the back of the pubic bone and the top of a woman’s cervix.

The size and location of the G-Spot will vary between women, but it usually lies about 1.5 to 3 inside the vagina.

This area inside the vagina has a different texture; it’s ridged, not smooth like the rest of the vagina, and when aroused has a spongy feel.

The G-Spot is not easily located. Sometimes even women have a hard time finding it and some don’t even believe it exists, but it does.

All you need to do is to locate it and arouse it and with a little trial and error between you and your partner you can.

Locating the G Spot

To explore and find the G spot, have your partner lie down, knees bent and feet flat on the floor or bed, with a pillow under her buttocks for comfort.

Insert your fingers into her vagina towards her navel. This will be between 1.5 to 3 inches inside the vagina to find the exact spot.

Press with the fingers against the front wall of the vagina. As it’s surrounded by tissue and deep in the vaginal wall, you will need to apply a little pressure. When you finally hit the right spot, it will swell the same way a penis does.

Slide your fingers from side to side. Have your partner tell you when you hit the right place and you she will know, as you will see the reaction when you hit it!

G Spot Technique

When you have found it move your fingers in even circles all around the inside of the vagina walls.

It generally feels best for her if you keep consistent, firm pressure along the entire length of the vaginal walls and use a steady rotational rhythm.

Stop rotating your fingers and rest your fingertips on the ridged area of the G Spot. Then move the fingers in and out and do rotational movements to keep hitting the spot.

Finding a rhythm is what you are looking for here; keep moving the fingers in and out and around constantly hitting the G Spot.

Stimulating the G Spot to the level where it will ejaculate requires three components:

1.Time: Needs to be taken to work your partner up

2.Gentle attention: Listen to your partner and find out what gives her pleasure.

3.Tapping: Keep constantly tapping the G-spot while you are moving your fingers.

Penis stimulation

Penises curve and the ones that curve upwards are most likely to hit the G territory. However if your penis curves to the left or the right, all is not lost. There are options!

If your penis curves to the left, right or to the south, you can position yourself in such a way that your penis hits the spot i.e., you need to be in a position where your penis points north.

For example, if your penis curves to the side. You lie horizontally, she lies vertically and you gain the same impact and will be able to hit her G Spot.

If your penis curves downwards, place her on top of you but facing the other way, you will see her buttocks and then move to hit the G spot.

Finally…

The G Spot is there in women all you have to do is find it and stimulate it to give your partner huge pleasure.

There is a lot of mystique related to the spot but to find the G spot and give your partner pleasure is really all about communication.

She will be able to guide you, all you need to do is follow her instructions have patience and find out what’s right for her.

If you do, you will add another dimension to your relationship and your partner will be very grateful for your effort!

Career And Family (1) - Jobs That Endanger Family Life

Family is necessary and important. Oh, family is wonderful; we cannot do without our families, as they are the source of our joy and excitement. Our lives revolve round our families. Their joy or otherwise affect us. We feel terribly bad, when bad things happen to them and we feel joyful and excited when good things happen.
Our career, like our family, is equally important, through our careers we get money to sustain our families and live a good live.
Most of the time, career will be in conflict against family life. In fact, most of the time career contributes greatly to the destruction of many marriages and families.
If we want to enjoy our life and destinies, we need to learn how to handle our families and career wisely.
In this piece, I will be exposing to you jobs and career that can endanger family and marriages.

1) All Jobs That Involves Constant Transfer. Jobs that involves from moving from one station to another can endanger marriage and family life. It can work against love life of the parents and adversely affect the children social and academic life. You should be careful before you take such a job. You need to count the cost and discuss openly and frankly with your spouse and seek ways of dealing with problems that may likely emanate from such a job. People in the Military, Police, Para-military, Pastors in denominational churches among others all fall into this category; wisdom should be applied lest constant transfer destabilize your family life.

2) All Jobs That Involves Shift. Jobs that involve working shift too can affect the family. Doctors, Nurses, some factory workers, journalists in electronic media, care givers, fire-brigade, etc fall into this category. Working on shift can hurt the family, most especially if it is not wisely handled. Shift that put you in opposite direction to your spouse is dangerous. By this I mean working in a shift whereby as you are coming home; your spouse is going out, as you are going out, your spouse is coming in; such that you have little or no time together, to talk, pray, play and make love as you would have loved. Before you take such a job, you must be very careful and if you are already in this kind of job; you need to discuss with your spouse and agree about what to do about it. You can also prayerfully discuss with your manager and see what you can do together on this issue before it destroys your marriage.

3) Jobs That Involves Permanent Night Shift. There is something about the night in every family. This is the period all members of the family should be together. Children are back from school; daddy and mummy should be available too. Any job that involves working night duties only is dangerous for your family. Please don’t take up such a job as it will hurt the life of your children, love life, marriage and ultimately your sex life. It even gives room for infidelity. Can you imagine a woman who is on permanent night duty that has a grown up house maid at home to take care of the children alone with a sexually unsatisfied husband? What do you think will happen? When the husband is at work, the woman is at home, when the man returns home, he only returns to the warm embrace of the house maid; who is now the deputy wife. You know what is likely going to happen. Don’t ever go for a job that put you on permanent night shift, no matter the amount of money involved, it will destroy your marriage.

4) Jobs That Takes Your Weekend and Public Holidays Without Any Compensation For It. Some jobs involve weekend duties, and give no room for public holidays. Journalists, workers in aviation industries, people working in essential services organization like electricity, fire service, water Corporation, health care providers, security services, etc all fall into this category. There should be ‘compensation’ for weekend services. By this I mean no body should be made to work seven days a week; it is not good for the worker’s health, his or her morale and family life. Every worker that works on weekend should have “off days” during the week, at least a day and should also be compensated financially for it. If you work in any place where you work seven days a week; you are not working; you are in a slave camp. You need to do something about it before the job destroys you, your health and your family life.

5) Jobs That Gives No Room For Rest. Experts said everybody should rest daily, weekly and yearly. Daily, in the night, weekly at weekends, yearly during annual leave. Any job you are doing that does not give you room for these resting times is not a good job. Every employer should give room for annual leave. You should not allow your employer to pay you in lieu of your leave. Holiday period and weekend is the right period to connect and reconnect with your family. Look forward to it, fight for it, and make good use of it. Don’t ever take a job that does not give room for vacation. If you are already in a job like this; talk to your manager with wisdom. Your vacation is your right; ask for it wisely!

Female Ejaculation

Watching your woman experience a squirting orgasm is a big turn on for many men. A man that knows how to get his woman to experience female ejaculation is a man that understands what his woman really desires. The problem is most men do not know and as such have never been taught how to perform this art of a woman.

Forget about what might be said that women do not ejaculate. This is a lie because almost every woman is capable of having a squirting orgasm and that includes your woman. When you learn to master this technique you will be able to do what 99% of other men can't...giving their woman the best sexual experience she's ever had.

Using your fingers is the easiest way to get your woman to have a squirting orgasm.

"This Is What You Need To Do"

Communication with your partner is very important in this action.

Have your woman lie down on her back and open up her legs. The first reaction a man will have is to stick their finger inside of her vagina and rapidly slide it back and forth. Women are different than men because it takes women longer time to get aroused. A man gets excited at the slightest time.

You'll want to take your finger and glide it around the outside of her vagina. Move up to her tummy and back down around her vagina. You'll want to do this for a couple of minutes to build up her anticipation. Once you get her anticipation up this is when the fun starts.

Take your finger and slowly insert in her vagina. Spend a couple of minutes using your finger to rub her vagina walls in a circular motion. Change directions every now and then. You need to be gentle when doing this so don't put too much pressure on her vagina wall when performing this step.

Now with your palm facing in the upward position insert your finger inside about 3 inches which should be just a little past your middle knuckle. By this point she should be extremely wet.

Now take your finger and make a little female lubricant lotion. Your finger tip should be on her G spot. You'll know when you feel her G spot because it will have a rough and bumpy texture. Now begin stimulating this spot by using the female lubricant lotion with your finger.

When she is getting close to her orgasm you'll feel her G spot begin to swell. This is where communication becomes important. Have her tell you how she's feeling and to be open about it. As her G spot begins to swell and she's getting close to her orgasm put slight pressure on her G spot with your finger.

She'll probably have a feeling like she needs to pee which is normal when a woman is about to squirt. Now to put yourself at ease I want you to know that this is not pee, it is her ejaculate. When she is ready to orgasm tell her to push it out. At this point you'll want to remove the slight pressure you have on her G spot and tell her in an excited voice you want her to squirt her juices in your hand!

Some women can squirt a whole bunch their first time while other women just have a little bit of ejaculation come out. Regardless of how much she squirts the feeling is just the same. You have just given your woman the most powerful and explosive orgasm she's ever had in her life.

…keep your sexual life burning.

UZODINMA (M.O.G)
http://www.couplesaffairforum.blogspot.com

Quick Sex Positions She Won't Forget

There are some sex positions that are more arousing then others for women. While the trusty missionary position is a good way to show affection and keep eye contact, there are many other positions that she will feel just as close to you and get some added arousal as well.

1) The Mare's Position:
Even if your woman doesn't necessarily like to be on top, she may enjoy this position. With this position you can either be sitting back on your hands or lying down with your legs straight out in front of you, while she sits down facing away from you. If you stay sitting up you can kiss the back or her neck or shoulders while she does a slow movement up and down. Also, if she contracts her vaginal walls while moving up and down, then both of you will experience a unique feeling that is not often felt while having sex.

2) Congress of a Cow:
If your woman can touch her hands to the floor while bent over standing, then she is going to love this position. This is a variation of a popular rear entry position. Have her support herself with her hands and her feet while you 'mount her like a bull'. Hold on to her waist during this position to offer a little more support to her. You will be able to penetrate her deeply with this position.

3) The Opened Position:
This is a variation of missionary that will give her great stimulation due to her clitoris being fully exposed to the friction of intercourse. Have her lay on her back and raise her body up. She can support herself on her shoulders and feet. You should be on top of her, but try not to put too much pressure on her as she is trying to hold herself up.

4) The Pressed Position:
This position shortens her vagina, so it is good for men with shorter penises or for men who just really want her to feel it. You have to be careful not to thrust to hard with this position though as you can hurt her and possibly turn her off forever from it! Have her lay on her back and bend her legs up to her chest. Her feet will rest on your chest. You should be on your knees and very close to her in this position.

5) The Half Pressed Position:
If she finds that it is hard for her to keep both of her legs bent in the pressed position, then you can vary it by only having her bend one leg to her chest and allow her to stretch her other leg straight out over one of your legs.

UZODINMA (M.O.G)

3 Tips You Can Use Tonight To Last Long In Bed

If you need to last long in bed tonight, then these are the TOP 3 tips to use:

1. Creams: While this isn't the most ideal approach, it is an approach that can work immediately, that's why it is part of the top 3 tips to get rid of premature ejaculation tonight. There are creams available, usually at the same place you buy condoms (in the same section) that when applied to the erect penis, they will provide a numbing effect. This way you won't feel as much during penetration and hence you won't get over excited too quickly, which usually leads to not pleasing your partner sexually. These can work when used the right way, but obviously you lose out on some sexual enjoyment as you don't feel as much as you normally would. But you do last long in bed!

2. Masturbation Before Hand: This actually works like a charm. About an hour or so before sex, if you masturbate, then when actual sex is to be had, you will end up lasting MUCH longer than ever before. Your body will have already depleted that first quick ejaculation, and as everyone knows, the second ejaculation always takes much longer to achieve and you really have to work hard at it. In other words you will last much longer the second time around. Give this a try.

3. Gently Touching The Testicles During Sex: This is a little known trick but it can be just what you need to last long in bed. Many men have found that by just touching, or gently flicking the tip of your finger to your testicles during sex, provides enough of a physical and mental diversion to get rid of premature ejaculation. Practice this first by masturbating to experience how this can work safely and effectively.

Committed To See That You Enjoy Satisfaction In This Aspect Of Your Life In Your Marriage.

UZODINMA (M.O.G)
http://www.couplesaffairforum.blogspot.com

How To Have Morning Sex

Now, what can be more romantic, and not to mention energizing, than to start your day with sex? I can hardly think of a better answer. However, what if your wife is not a morning person? If your morning advances have not been positively answered instead you are often told i’m story because I am not in the mode, then you’re probably doing something wrong.

If you want to have guaranteed morning sex with your woman? Follow these tips.

1) Make Sure You Smell Good: I’ll state it here clearly that bad morning breath sucks! It’s a real turn off so don’t even start if you suffer from bad morning breath. To get around this, here’s a simple solution: get up, go to the bathroom to relieve yourself and brush your teeth! This actually has two advantages: one, your breath smells fresh and two, the minty aftertaste wakes her up. Having a sweet or mint in your bedside drawer is also good.

2) Be Slow and Gentle: Most people hate being rudely awakened and this include your woman. So instead of getting on top of her and kissing her fervently, go slow! Reach out and gently fondle her nipples through her clothing. You’ll see them get hard even while she’s still sleeping. Who knows, she might even think she’s dreaming and get all lusty and wet even before she wakes up!

After spending some time fondling and cupping her breasts, start kissing and breathing warmly against her neck; progress to licking it. If she’s turned on her side all the better because this means you can press against her with your stiff manhood. Rub against her. I repeat this: RUB against her, not pump. Again the key here is to almost lazily make love, not hungrily.

Ok, by now, she’s surely waking up! Don’t ruin it by simply going for intercourse. Remember, she may not even be wet yet. So compliment her right away. Say something like “Baby, the curves of your lips is so sexy and tantalizing, can I suck it?” Also, since you’ve been fondling her breasts you can say “your nipples are so erect Honey, can I kiss it?” But of course, you won’t JUST kiss it! You can also guide her hand on your erection and, while still holding her hand, rub your own stiffness with it. Don’t worry, she’ll get the idea soon enough!

3) Is She Wet Already? As she starts to rub you, leave her hand and return the favor. Reach down between her legs and start fondling her there too, making sure she’s ready for you. On the rare chance that she’s not but you see that she’s very much in to morning sex already, enter under the bed sheets, draw her undies down and give her some good oral.

Now that you’re both hot for each other, go for the kill! However, if your natural tendency is to talk dirty, try not to do it this time. Remember, morning sex, at least for most women, is tantamount to slow, romantic, lazy sex so try to stick to this!

UZODINMA(M.O.G)
john.couplesforum@gmail.com