Thursday, January 19, 2012

Little Things That Make or Break a Relationship


Just as tiny drops of water make an ocean, little actions of Love and Care strengthens a relationships. It takes years to build the much-needed trust in a relationship while it takes just an action of callousness to break the bond. Both men and women need to work in tandem to complement each other in a relationship. Just telling how much you love each other is not enough. Every action of yours should speak about the Love you feel towards each other. Here are some of the things that guys as well as ladies should do to keep their bond strong day after day.

Wish your Lady 'Good Morning' and 'Good Night' Everyday. Trivial as it might sound but all women appreciate this little gesture. If she lives with you, then begin your day with a warm, cozy hug. Else, send her a lovey-dovey good morning text. This will surely be a very good beginning to her day. In addition, make sure you end your day with a Loving Goodnight text and a Goodnight Kiss. And if your ladylove is by your side, you have enough ways to say Goodnight to her.

Likewise, women should be sensitive to their partners when they return stressed after a hard day at office. Often, women overlook the fact that their partners want to relax when they come home and not be welcomed with complaints or nagging issues. A warm cup of tea or coffee, a relaxing neck or head massage, and a warm welcome at home is more than enough for men to feel blessed.

Women love to be cared for. Men should remember this and offer her to drop off wherever she is heading to occasionally like office or supermarket. This does not mean that she cannot travel or go alone. It only means that the guy cares for her and wants her to be safe.

Sharing is one of the most important building stones in a relationship. Share your day's experience, your biggest fears and happiness, and your secrets (serious ones or extreme dumb ones) with your partner. These little things help to uncover the facets of each other's personalities and help to know each other better. In addition, these revelations help to build faith in each other.

Remembering important dates is also a vital aspect that assures, especially women, how much the man in her life values her. Men are not too good with dates but the best thing they can do is save dates like her birthday or anniversary date on the calendar. Forgetting important dates is a very sensitive issue amongst most women. So guys, why give them the chance to complain?

Last but not the least, no matter how many times your lady has said that gifts don't matter, she will love it when you surprise her with gifts. Gifts do not have to be expensive always. They should complement the occasion and ooze with love and tenderness. So, always keep in mind to shower your love with pretty gifts once in a while.

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